Advice.

Good day,

I wonder if someone can give me some advice on Canadian
family law.

To cut a long story shorter - I am a male UK/Irish citizen.I
had a
relationship with a woman from Canada and we had a daughter
who is now
6 yrs in April.Her mother is married and up to
2ys ago I
was seeing our daughter several times a wk over there .

Ive been back
and forth to
Canada so many times.

But since then I ve seen her twice on my visits - she wont
let me see
her,because she doesnt want her husband etc (who she was
suppose to
leave) know.

His name is on her birth certificate as her father and he doesnt know the
truth.

Its been driving me ''crazy'' for so long now.



I intend to come back to Toronto in May - and do whatever
this time
- whatever I ''must '' do to get to know my daughter .


Or is it too late for me because I did everything her mother
wanted and
now she is using this against me saying how horrible and how
it would ruin
our daughter life etc for her to know the truth .

Since Ive written this - Ive been back again twice more.In the summer , she
promised she was leaving but needed the summer to sort it all out.I came
purposedly then to be able to see my daughter in the summer holidays.

She then said October - when I came back last mth it was the same story.How
I would now destroy my daugters life and no court would let me see her
now!She said alot of hurtful things as well as threathened me when I told
her I was seeing a lawyer - which I wont go into here.
But I came home without pursuing it in courts of law.She is still saying she
will leave when its the best time - btw.

I want whats *best for my daughter - I feel like Im ''betraying'' her by not
bringing this out in the open, regardless of the outcome for me.At least I
would have tried and maybe failed.I would be grateful of an opinion - as
long as its not insulting to me.

Because I am suffering **terribly as it is!!

My consern is how this would affect my daughter if the truth came out now as
a 6yo ?As to when she is older.



Ciaran