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Can Teenager Spanking Be Justified?
Hello all,
Raising almost-adult teenage kids is about the hardest job in the world, as many of you know. I am the father of a teenage girl, and although I feel she needs me and often reaches out to me in an aggressive, twisted sort of way, I have found no lasting way of getting through to her. Now, this blog post by an 18yr girl made me wonder: http://coveries.blogspot.com/2005/04/punishment.html Although she recognises that her father sometimes goes overboard, and that he lacks consistency, she seems to actually advocate physical punishment. Could that be the answer? |
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wrote in message ups.com... Hello all, Raising almost-adult teenage kids is about the hardest job in the world, as many of you know. I am the father of a teenage girl, and although I feel she needs me and often reaches out to me in an aggressive, twisted sort of way, I have found no lasting way of getting through to her. Now, this blog post by an 18yr girl made me wonder: http://coveries.blogspot.com/2005/04/punishment.html Although she recognises that her father sometimes goes overboard, and that he lacks consistency, she seems to actually advocate physical punishment. Could that be the answer? Do you really wish to teach your teenage daughter that it is ok to hit? Or worse, that is ok to be get hit? I think you a better answer is that you get counseling to help you work better with your daughter. Jeff |
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wrote: Hello all, Raising almost-adult teenage kids is about the hardest job in the world, as many of you know. I am the father of a teenage girl, and although I feel she needs me and often reaches out to me in an aggressive, twisted sort of way, I have found no lasting way of getting through to her. Now, this blog post by an 18yr girl made me wonder: http://coveries.blogspot.com/2005/04/punishment.html Although she recognises that her father sometimes goes overboard, and that he lacks consistency, she seems to actually advocate physical punishment. Could that be the answer? I think you're a troll and the material in the blogspot is sexual fantasy. If not, then the father was sexually abusive. It's the answer only if all the participants are unrelated, over 18, and doing it in private for fun. |
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Just a fantasy? (It's not very sexual though, is it?) That explanation
would make my life easier. (And again, more complicated...) You're probably right. Thanks. |
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I believe that in some other countries, spanking and public caning of
sucha age is perfectly legal. Its too bad its not in our country. There are many, many teens that need to be spanked and such. Its rather unfottunate that our society is going down the tube so fast. John |
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wrote in message oups.com... I think you're a troll and the material in the blogspot is sexual fantasy. His email handle says it all. |
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Sexual fantasy? No its just discipline.
There are those that spank for fantasy, but others for discipline. John PS- Would you say that those that cane or spank in Singapore is also a sexual fantasy? |
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wrote: Sexual fantasy? No its just discipline. Not that particular blogspot. I'm not suggesting that caning as a form of discipline doesn't occur. If you're interested in it as discipline, there's a whole separate newsgroup in which there's always a raging debate. Come to that, if you're interested in it as a fantasy, there's yet another newsgroup on the subject. There are those that spank for fantasy, but others for discipline. John PS- Would you say that those that cane or spank in Singapore is also a sexual fantasy? No, but Singapore does not legally cane women or children. Only men between 16 and 50 may be subject to judicial caning. And you don't find salacious descriptions, purportedly by young women, of such canings. |
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Huh? Oh you have a dirty mind... I didn't realise that my post actually
was twisted pornographic ravings, but several others apparently do, so please excuse me. |
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