New Mama With Questions

"Jodi B" wrote in message
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Hi All,

I just gave birth to my son on Sunday and I while I've lurked in this
group for a long time, I guess I'd like some encouragement now that I'm
actually in the thick of learning to bf a newborn.

Congratulations!! The first couple of weeks are so hard. If you are very
engorged he might be upset that it is hard to stay latched on such a firm
breast and/or that he is getting more milk then he can deal with. The
engorgement will correct itself but if you think this might be the problem
you might want to pump or hand express enough to get past the first let down
or enough to make your breast a little softer for him.

And new born babies are just fuss pots some times. They are on a learning
curve to and get impatient. Play some soft music and try to stay relaxed (I
know it is hard when you are hormonal, sleep deprived, and worried all at
the same time) and just keep plugging away at getting him latched on. Sing
him a sweet song as soon as he is latched. I don't know if it did anything
for my babies but I've found it almost impossible to be frustrated and
singing at the same time.

Oh, and post as many times as you want. Sometimes it just helps to not only
get input but just commiserate with other moms that know what you are going
through!
--
Nikki, mama to
Hunter 4/99
Luke 4/01
Brock 4/06
Ben 4/06