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Why is child abuse so common?
http://community.nursingspectrum.com...e.cfm?AID=4279
Do Parents Understand Child Behavior? Few adults who maltreat children are sadistic torturers. Instead, most abusers expect too much from children and discipline them too harshly, too often, and too bizarrely. They don't know enough about child development to match their expectations to the child's capabilities or nurture the child's emotional needs. A nationwide study - "What Grown-Ups Understand About Child Development: A National Benchmark Survey" - confirmed that misunderstanding is widespread. For example, researchers found: * Forty-four percent of parents and 60% of grandparents incorrectly believe that picking up 3-month-olds every time they cry will spoil them. * Forty percent of the parents of young children believe that 1-year-olds who repeatedly turn the TV on and off while their parents are trying to view it believe the children are "angry and trying to get back at them." * Twenty-six percent of all adults believe 3-year-olds should be able to sit quietly for an hour at a time. ........ -- Comforting a child teaches them they deserve nurturing and concern from the parent. And they transfer that to self care in their future. -- One year olds, as an early childhood development specialist finally got through my head, are practical physicists. They are doing what nature forces them to do: test the physical world. Those that are denied this in a safe world created by the caregiver grow up with two problems; ignorance, and stupidity. Imagine how magic it seems to the child when they see an adult turn the TV on and off...and why would they not want to try and learn this for themselves? And is it not very common for small children to use repetition to learn...and not forget? If this were not so we would not have nursery rhymes. -- A 3 year old that can sit quietly for an hour at a time is sick. In fact, adults rarely can perform this unreasonable feat of torture. Consider yourself. What do people do to their children when the child fails to live up to these erroneous expectations? In the answer lies the reason I claim that child abuse is hidden far more than it is revealed. The rest of the page, by a pediatric nurse, is well worth a read. She's apparently seen rather a lot. Kane |
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Why is child abuse so common?
most allegations of abuse made during divorce litigation are false(80%). See
statistics available at http://www.fathersrights.org "0;-" wrote in message oups.com... http://community.nursingspectrum.com...e.cfm?AID=4279 Do Parents Understand Child Behavior? Few adults who maltreat children are sadistic torturers. Instead, most abusers expect too much from children and discipline them too harshly, too often, and too bizarrely. They don't know enough about child development to match their expectations to the child's capabilities or nurture the child's emotional needs. A nationwide study - "What Grown-Ups Understand About Child Development: A National Benchmark Survey" - confirmed that misunderstanding is widespread. For example, researchers found: * Forty-four percent of parents and 60% of grandparents incorrectly believe that picking up 3-month-olds every time they cry will spoil them. * Forty percent of the parents of young children believe that 1-year-olds who repeatedly turn the TV on and off while their parents are trying to view it believe the children are "angry and trying to get back at them." * Twenty-six percent of all adults believe 3-year-olds should be able to sit quietly for an hour at a time. ....... -- Comforting a child teaches them they deserve nurturing and concern from the parent. And they transfer that to self care in their future. -- One year olds, as an early childhood development specialist finally got through my head, are practical physicists. They are doing what nature forces them to do: test the physical world. Those that are denied this in a safe world created by the caregiver grow up with two problems; ignorance, and stupidity. Imagine how magic it seems to the child when they see an adult turn the TV on and off...and why would they not want to try and learn this for themselves? And is it not very common for small children to use repetition to learn...and not forget? If this were not so we would not have nursery rhymes. -- A 3 year old that can sit quietly for an hour at a time is sick. In fact, adults rarely can perform this unreasonable feat of torture. Consider yourself. What do people do to their children when the child fails to live up to these erroneous expectations? In the answer lies the reason I claim that child abuse is hidden far more than it is revealed. The rest of the page, by a pediatric nurse, is well worth a read. She's apparently seen rather a lot. Kane |
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Why is child abuse so common?
You did not provide the statistics from which you say you make your
claim. I doubt you are telling the truth. dadslawyer wrote: most allegations of abuse made during divorce litigation are false(80%). See statistics available at http://www.fathersrights.org You claim that only 20% are true? And you get this from what source again? Yah know I have nothing but admiration for those folks working to right wrongs, but nothing for disgust for those that will lie to do it. You aren't lying are you? Your source please. Kane |
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Why is child abuse so common?
Who said it was "common"? "so common": Boy, that's meaningful!
Typical of a kaner move, even. NOTE TO THE PILLAGERS AND RAPERS OF THE FOSTER CARE SUPPORT GROUP: YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO AWAY MAD, JUST GO AWAY, BACK TO YOUR STIES. "dadslawyer" wrote in message news:6Gv8f.16431$v_5.9543@dukeread07... : most allegations of abuse made during divorce litigation are false(80%). See : statistics available at http://www.fathersrights.org : "0;-" wrote in message : oups.com... : http://community.nursingspectrum.com...e.cfm?AID=4279 : : Do Parents Understand Child Behavior? : : Few adults who maltreat children are sadistic torturers. Instead, most : abusers expect too much from children and discipline them too harshly, : too often, and too bizarrely. They don't know enough about child : development to match their expectations to the child's capabilities : or nurture the child's emotional needs. A nationwide study - : "What Grown-Ups Understand About Child Development: A National : Benchmark Survey" - confirmed that misunderstanding is widespread. : For example, researchers found: : : * Forty-four percent of parents and 60% of grandparents incorrectly : believe that picking up 3-month-olds every time they cry will spoil : them. : * Forty percent of the parents of young children believe that : 1-year-olds who repeatedly turn the TV on and off while their parents : are trying to view it believe the children are "angry and trying to : get back at them." : * Twenty-six percent of all adults believe 3-year-olds should be : able to sit quietly for an hour at a time. : : ....... : : -- Comforting a child teaches them they deserve nurturing and concern : from the parent. And they transfer that to self care in their future. : : -- One year olds, as an early childhood development specialist finally : got through my head, are practical physicists. They are doing what : nature forces them to do: test the physical world. Those that are : denied this in a safe world created by the caregiver grow up with two : problems; ignorance, and stupidity. : : Imagine how magic it seems to the child when they see an adult turn the : TV on and off...and why would they not want to try and learn this for : themselves? And is it not very common for small children to use : repetition to learn...and not forget? If this were not so we would not : have nursery rhymes. : : -- A 3 year old that can sit quietly for an hour at a time is sick. : : In fact, adults rarely can perform this unreasonable feat of torture. : Consider yourself. : : What do people do to their children when the child fails to live up to : these erroneous expectations? : : In the answer lies the reason I claim that child abuse is hidden far : more than it is revealed. : : The rest of the page, by a pediatric nurse, is well worth a read. She's : apparently seen rather a lot. : : Kane : : : |
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Why is child abuse so common?
AND YOU'VE NEVER PROVIDED A REAL STATISTIC FOR ANY OF THE FOUL
EMANATIONS THAT COME FROM YOUR ORFICES EITHER. COVER YOUR BUNGHOLE WHEN YOU COUGH, WILL YA? === NOTE TO THE PILLAGERS AND RAPERS OF THE FOSTER CARE SUPPORT GROUP: YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO AWAY MAD, JUST GO AWAY, BACK TO YOUR STIES. KANER WANNA-BE: THOSE WHO OPT FOR LOBOTOMIES KANER TOILET: ANYONE. KANER AUDIENCE: AN URBAN LEGEND. KANER SONG: BATTLE HIMN OF THE RE-PUBIC. KANER HEAVEN: ANY TIME SOMEONE COWTOWS TO OR FEELS BAD DUE TO, A KANER'S FOOLISHNESS. LAST KNOWN INSTANCE WAS ABOUT 1800 YEARS AGO. TOIL-LET: A BIG KANER WORK FORCE: SOMETHING A KANER CANNOT DO LIE: KANER'S CREEDO TRUTH: KANER FICTION FECES: KANER'S FAVORITE PAST TIME BY THE LOOK OF SOME OF ITS PAST THREADS. URINE: WHAT A KANER PUTS ALL OVER HIS TABLE DIALOG: KANER INSULTS DEBATE: A KANER TELLING SOMEONE ELSE HOW STUPID THEY ARE AND HOW USELESS THEY ARE. AUTHOR: ANYTHING BUT A KANER CIRCUMCISION: SOMETHING NO KANER COULD HAVE WART ON THE ASS OF PROGRESS: A KANER REGRESSION: KANER PROGRESS .... ALL USELESS WORDS SNIPPED BELOW |
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Why is child abuse so common?
Kane,
Isn't it amazing that the only response you received was from "pop?" "dads lawyer" made the claims but he is strangely silent when you as for sources. LaVonne wrote: You did not provide the statistics from which you say you make your claim. I doubt you are telling the truth. dadslawyer wrote: most allegations of abuse made during divorce litigation are false(80%). See statistics available at http://www.fathersrights.org You claim that only 20% are true? And you get this from what source again? Yah know I have nothing but admiration for those folks working to right wrongs, but nothing for disgust for those that will lie to do it. You aren't lying are you? Your source please. Kane |
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Why is child abuse so common?
Yeah! Like those studies you claimed to have posted? ;-) Doan On Mon, 31 Oct 2005, Carlson LaVonne wrote: Kane, Isn't it amazing that the only response you received was from "pop?" "dads lawyer" made the claims but he is strangely silent when you as for sources. LaVonne wrote: You did not provide the statistics from which you say you make your claim. I doubt you are telling the truth. dadslawyer wrote: most allegations of abuse made during divorce litigation are false(80%). See statistics available at http://www.fathersrights.org You claim that only 20% are true? And you get this from what source again? Yah know I have nothing but admiration for those folks working to right wrongs, but nothing for disgust for those that will lie to do it. You aren't lying are you? Your source please. Kane |
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POP RESPECTS FOSTER PARENTS Why is child abuse so common?
BUT ABHORS THOSE WHO MUST RAPE AND PILLAGE FOR THEIR MEAGER
EXISTENCE. A KANER BY ANY OTHER NAME ... NOTE TO THE PILLAGERS AND RAPERS OF THE FOSTER CARE SUPPORT GROUP: YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO AWAY MAD, JUST GO AWAY, BACK TO YOUR STIES. "Carlson LaVonne" wrote in message ... : Kane, : : Isn't it amazing that the only response you received was from "pop?" : "dads lawyer" made the claims but he is strangely silent when you as for : sources. : : LaVonne : : wrote: : You did not provide the statistics from which you say you make your : claim. : : I doubt you are telling the truth. : : : dadslawyer wrote: : : most allegations of abuse made during divorce litigation are false(80%). See : statistics available at http://www.fathersrights.org : : : You claim that only 20% are true? And you get this from what source : again? : : Yah know I have nothing but admiration for those folks working to right : wrongs, but nothing for disgust for those that will lie to do it. : : You aren't lying are you? : : Your source please. : : Kane : : |
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KANING FROM THE DUGOUTS NOW? Why is child abuse so common?
NOTE TO THE PILLAGERS AND RAPERS OF THE FOSTER CARE SUPPORT
GROUP: YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO AWAY MAD, JUST GO AWAY, BACK TO YOUR STIES. "Doan" wrote in message ... : : : Yeah! Like those studies you claimed to have posted? ;-) : : Doan : : : On Mon, 31 Oct 2005, Carlson LaVonne wrote: : : Kane, : : Isn't it amazing that the only response you received was from "pop?" : "dads lawyer" made the claims but he is strangely silent when you as for : sources. : : LaVonne : : wrote: : You did not provide the statistics from which you say you make your : claim. : : I doubt you are telling the truth. : : : dadslawyer wrote: : : most allegations of abuse made during divorce litigation are false(80%). See : statistics available at http://www.fathersrights.org : : : You claim that only 20% are true? And you get this from what source : again? : : Yah know I have nothing but admiration for those folks working to right : wrongs, but nothing for disgust for those that will lie to do it. : : You aren't lying are you? : : Your source please. : : Kane : : : : |
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