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Child custody matters when one spouse moves?
My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody,
etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. The father still lives in georgia. thanks chaz |
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Child custody matters when one spouse moves?
"access databaes" wrote in message ups.com... My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? |
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Child custody matters when one spouse moves?
On Aug 10, 7:36 pm, "Gini" wrote:
"access databaes" wrote in message ups.com... My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? I am not in the middle, I am her husband. Get it? Permission? She didnt need permission. We are in an adjacent state, a few minutes from the state line. Are you familiar with the UCJA? |
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"alt.child.support" wrote in message ups.com... On Aug 10, 7:36 pm, "Gini" wrote: "access databaes" wrote in message ups.com... My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? I am not in the middle, I am her husband. Get it? Permission? She didnt need permission. We are in an adjacent state, a few minutes from the state line. Are you familiar with the UCJA? Let me ask Gini's question a different way. Did your wife have a court ordered restriction on not moving the children until after providing written notification to the children's father? Did she provide that notice and honor the court ordered lead time before moving? Were there any court ordered restrictions on how far the children could be moved from their prior domicile? In GA law are there restrictions on moving the children out of state even if the move is within the statutory mileage boundary set in another portion of the custody law? IOW - The question is - Did your wife follow the court's order and the GA state laws? If she didn't the GA courts will be unhappy and the SC courts will not accept a "registration" of the GA order in their state. All of those questions are relevant regarding whether UCJA can apply or not. Gini is correct - GA retains jurisdiction. So then the issue becomes does your wife have "clean hands in the eyes of the law" so she can she get jurisdiction changed to SC to allow UCJA to apply. If not, the children's father has solid grounds to object to the move out of state and ask the court to force her to return the children to GA. The bottom line is - She can move anywhere she wants, but she can't take the children with her without the court's approval. And the act of moving does not allow a CP to invoke the UCJA law to over-ride a previous court order. |
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"alt.child.support" wrote On Aug 10, 7:36 pm, "Gini" wrote: "access databaes" wrote My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? I am not in the middle, I am her husband. == Precisely. This matter is between the children(s)' parents. That leaves you out. == Get it? Permission? She didnt need permission. == You're new at this aren't you? == We are in an adjacent state, a few minutes from the state line. Are you familiar with the UCJA? == Hehe--Looks like you got a live one, Bob :-) |
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Child custody matters when one spouse moves?
"alt.child.support" wrote On Aug 10, 7:36 pm, "Gini" wrote: "access databaes" wrote My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? I am not in the middle, I am her husband. == I forgot to mention--We don't take kindly to stepparents who try to interfere with a father's rights to his children. So, tell us--The father is "stirring" what "up again LOL?" Is your name Brian? |
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Child custody matters when one spouse moves?
On Aug 10, 8:36 pm, "Bob Whiteside" wrote:
"alt.child.support" wrote in message ups.com... On Aug 10, 7:36 pm, "Gini" wrote: "access databaes" wrote in message roups.com... My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? I am not in the middle, I am her husband. Get it? Permission? She didnt need permission. We are in an adjacent state, a few minutes from the state line. Are you familiar with the UCJA? Let me ask Gini's question a different way. Did your wife have a court ordered restriction on not moving the children until after providing written notification to the children's father? Did she provide that notice and honor the court ordered lead time before moving? Were there any court ordered restrictions on how far the children could be moved from their prior domicile? In GA law are there restrictions on moving the children out of state even if the move is within the statutory mileage boundary set in another portion of the custody law? IOW - The question is - Did your wife follow the court's order and the GA state laws? If she didn't the GA courts will be unhappy and the SC courts will not accept a "registration" of the GA order in their state. All of those questions are relevant regarding whether UCJA can apply or not. Gini is correct - GA retains jurisdiction. So then the issue becomes does your wife have "clean hands in the eyes of the law" so she can she get jurisdiction changed to SC to allow UCJA to apply. If not, the children's father has solid grounds to object to the move out of state and ask the court to force her to return the children to GA. The bottom line is - She can move anywhere she wants, but she can't take the children with her without the court's approval. And the act of moving does not allow a CP to invoke the UCJA law to over-ride a previous court order.- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - Let me clarify. This isnt about which state we live in. The counties are actually closer than they were before they moved. I encourage the father to be a dad to these children. He has chosen however to eleiminate his summer visitation with them because he doesnt want to worry about the care for them. He has married and separated from his second wife. He has also moved into this state then moved back to ga again. I cant keep up with the gentleman, nor do I try to. I have 2 children of my own. I know what its like to have one in a poor living condition. My son was being abused by a stepfather and we spent well over 10 grand getting him out of the situation. I love all the children. And I WISH that their daddy would act like one, but nobody can make him be a daddy, which is what the family court judge told him when he decided to give up his summer visitation. Now he claims he wants custody of the daughter. In a word......... he is an instigator. But this isnt my battle.......... and no, I wont sit absolutely silently by. Its the best interest of the child, no? Thanks for the input................ chaz In any event, we were only asking which state would this be filed in. |
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"alt.child.support" wrote in message oups.com... On Aug 10, 8:36 pm, "Bob Whiteside" wrote: "alt.child.support" wrote in message ups.com... On Aug 10, 7:36 pm, "Gini" wrote: "access databaes" wrote in message roups.com... My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? I am not in the middle, I am her husband. Get it? Permission? She didnt need permission. We are in an adjacent state, a few minutes from the state line. Are you familiar with the UCJA? Let me ask Gini's question a different way. Did your wife have a court ordered restriction on not moving the children until after providing written notification to the children's father? Did she provide that notice and honor the court ordered lead time before moving? Were there any court ordered restrictions on how far the children could be moved from their prior domicile? In GA law are there restrictions on moving the children out of state even if the move is within the statutory mileage boundary set in another portion of the custody law? IOW - The question is - Did your wife follow the court's order and the GA state laws? If she didn't the GA courts will be unhappy and the SC courts will not accept a "registration" of the GA order in their state. All of those questions are relevant regarding whether UCJA can apply or not. Gini is correct - GA retains jurisdiction. So then the issue becomes does your wife have "clean hands in the eyes of the law" so she can she get jurisdiction changed to SC to allow UCJA to apply. If not, the children's father has solid grounds to object to the move out of state and ask the court to force her to return the children to GA. The bottom line is - She can move anywhere she wants, but she can't take the children with her without the court's approval. And the act of moving does not allow a CP to invoke the UCJA law to over-ride a previous court order.- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - Let me clarify. This isnt about which state we live in. The counties are actually closer than they were before they moved. I encourage the father to be a dad to these children. He has chosen however to eleiminate his summer visitation with them because he doesnt want to worry about the care for them. He has married and separated from his second wife. He has also moved into this state then moved back to ga again. I cant keep up with the gentleman, nor do I try to. I have 2 children of my own. I know what its like to have one in a poor living condition. My son was being abused by a stepfather and we spent well over 10 grand getting him out of the situation. I love all the children. And I WISH that their daddy would act like one, but nobody can make him be a daddy, which is what the family court judge told him when he decided to give up his summer visitation. Now he claims he wants custody of the daughter. In a word......... he is an instigator. But this isnt my battle.......... and no, I wont sit absolutely silently by. Its the best interest of the child, no? Thanks for the input................ chaz In any event, we were only asking which state would this be filed in. Unless you have filed and switched over to your current state, CS is still in the original state. As for him not living up to "daddy" standards, yes, it is sad when either parent chooses not to be a parent. But that does not change the fact that they ARE a parent. And the fact that he doesn't meet your standards does not mean that he is inadequate as a father--just that you do not approve of him. My question is, why is this man who you claim lacks any interest in daddyhood whatsoever suddenly fighting to obtain custody of one of the children? How old is the child he is seeking? Did the child ask her father if she could come live with him? If she really wants to go, will her mother permit it? "The best interest of the child" is a mantra that has been used to strip parental rights from many a man, while insisting that their financial responsibilities be increased because they no are no longer active participants in the day to day lives of their children. Using it earns no points. Why is it that you feel he is so inadequate? Do his children feel the same way? |
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"alt.child.support" wrote in message oups.com... On Aug 10, 8:36 pm, "Bob Whiteside" wrote: "alt.child.support" wrote in message ups.com... On Aug 10, 7:36 pm, "Gini" wrote: "access databaes" wrote in message roups.com... My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. == Georgia has jurisdiction. Did she have the court's permission to leave the state with the kids? Why are you in the middle of her parenting business? I am not in the middle, I am her husband. Get it? Permission? She didnt need permission. We are in an adjacent state, a few minutes from the state line. Are you familiar with the UCJA? Let me ask Gini's question a different way. Did your wife have a court ordered restriction on not moving the children until after providing written notification to the children's father? Did she provide that notice and honor the court ordered lead time before moving? Were there any court ordered restrictions on how far the children could be moved from their prior domicile? In GA law are there restrictions on moving the children out of state even if the move is within the statutory mileage boundary set in another portion of the custody law? IOW - The question is - Did your wife follow the court's order and the GA state laws? If she didn't the GA courts will be unhappy and the SC courts will not accept a "registration" of the GA order in their state. All of those questions are relevant regarding whether UCJA can apply or not. Gini is correct - GA retains jurisdiction. So then the issue becomes does your wife have "clean hands in the eyes of the law" so she can she get jurisdiction changed to SC to allow UCJA to apply. If not, the children's father has solid grounds to object to the move out of state and ask the court to force her to return the children to GA. The bottom line is - She can move anywhere she wants, but she can't take the children with her without the court's approval. And the act of moving does not allow a CP to invoke the UCJA law to over-ride a previous court order.- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - Let me clarify. This isnt about which state we live in. The counties are actually closer than they were before they moved. I encourage the father to be a dad to these children. He has chosen however to eleiminate his summer visitation with them because he doesnt want to worry about the care for them. He has married and separated from his second wife. He has also moved into this state then moved back to ga again. I cant keep up with the gentleman, nor do I try to. I have 2 children of my own. I know what its like to have one in a poor living condition. My son was being abused by a stepfather and we spent well over 10 grand getting him out of the situation. I love all the children. And I WISH that their daddy would act like one, but nobody can make him be a daddy, which is what the family court judge told him when he decided to give up his summer visitation. Now he claims he wants custody of the daughter. In a word......... he is an instigator. But this isnt my battle.......... and no, I wont sit absolutely silently by. Its the best interest of the child, no? Thanks for the input................ chaz In any event, we were only asking which state would this be filed in. So let's get this straight. Your son was being abused by a step-dad so it was okay for you to take legal action to get him out of that situation. Yet when another man's one of three children has a reason to desire a change of custody you claim the child's father is an "instigator"? It must be nice to be such a perfect dad and step-dad and believe such a double standard for parenting is okay. |
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Child custody matters when one spouse moves?
Quit emotionally abusing these children and let them see their father n
BUTT OUT YOU ARE NOT THE DAD "access databaes" wrote in message ups.com... My wife has three children from her previous marriage. The custody, etc were settled in Georgia. We have lived in SC for the last 18 months (close to georgia). The father is stirring it up again LOL and I want to know who has jurisdiction? I read over the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act but its still not really clear to me. The father still lives in georgia. thanks chaz |
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