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"Jenrose" wrote in message
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I lost the baby on Monday.

Jenrose



Jen,
I'm so sorry ;(
May your pain pass quickly and may you have good luck TTC when you're
ready to try again.
(((hugs)))

Jen

I'm so sorry. Give yourself time to grieve and recover, and hopefully next
time will be the time that works. Be gentle with yourself, and hope for the
future. Sometimes, that's all you can do.

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Jen,
I'm so sorry ;(
May your pain pass quickly and may you have good luck TTC when you're
ready to try again.
(((hugs)))

*me too*

Jess

Jenrose wrote:

I lost the baby on Monday.

I'm so sorry. My best wishes to all of you.

--
Sara, accompanied by the baby barnacle

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So sorry to hear Jen my thoughts are with you.

Karen

I'm so very sorry. :-(

((((((Jenrose))))))

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"Jenrose" wrote in message
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I lost the baby on Monday. The miscarriage started at 7 w 1 d, but I think
from what I saw that baby stopped growing a week or two earlier.

I just lost our baby Sunday. I was 7 weeks when it was detected--the baby
measured 6 weeks. I also miscarried naturally at home.

I understand your pain and am so sorry to hear it. It is a very sad time.


We decided that if I ovulate before June 14 (3 wks after mc) then we'll
wait
a cycle to try again. If I don't ovulate until after June 14, we'll start
ttc this cycle.


We want to ttc real soon also. I get depressed when people and doc's. say
to wait 2-3 cycles to give your body time to heal. What did your doc tell
you? Mine said they want to make sure my hcg levels go down to zero to
make sure all of the placenta is gone and there are no problems. My hcg
level was 4300 Friday and down to 1030 on Monday. I go back next Tuesday
and the following Thursday for further hcg testing.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss and hope all goes well with your next
pregnancy.

Robin

"Jenrose" wrote in message
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I lost the baby on Monday. The miscarriage started at 7 w 1 d,

i'm so sorry.
--
elizabeth (in australia)

"Jenrose" wrote in message
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I lost the baby on Monday.

I'm so very sorry, Jenrose. Healing vibes to you, and also to your DH
and your mom.
--
Cheryl S.
Mom to Julie, 3, and Jaden, 8 months

{{{Jen}} So sorry to hear of your loss.
"Jenrose" wrote in message
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I lost the baby on Monday. The miscarriage started at 7 w 1 d, but I think
from what I saw that baby stopped growing a week or two earlier. My faith
in
the medical establishment was pretty accurate, but I did manage to get
compassionate, if slow, care at the ER when we went in to make sure the
burning pain wasn't ectopic. It wasn't. I went home and miscarried
naturally
over the next two days. Brutally, constantly painful Sunday. Monday,
surprisingly gentle, although rather laborlike, and I was just starting to
hope that things might be okay when the baby passed painlessly.

We decided that if I ovulate before June 14 (3 wks after mc) then we'll
wait
a cycle to try again. If I don't ovulate until after June 14, we'll start
ttc this cycle.

The only "good" thing about this is that I know that it wasn't caused by
my
clotting disorder--in fact, I passed very few clots at all, which means
I've
managed to successfully anticoagulate enough without causing heavy
bleeding
using my herbs and vitamins. The maternal side of the placenta looked
great.
That was about all that did look great--the baby's side was sort of
"folded"
and baby had clearly stopped growing and didn't look right, even by the
wierd standards of what 4 week embryos look like.

Perversely, as soon as the baby passed I felt "fine" phsyically. Bleeding
is
"light period" right now and wsa far heavier this weekend. I'm tired, but
as
much from the emotions as anything.

We buried the baby with the placenta on Tuesday, in the most fertile piece
of ground I know, under a blueberry bush in my old herb garden at my
mother's house.

My husband has been amazing... he stayed home with me Tuesday all day, and
has been taking really good care of me. He's been very tender and gentle
and
unafraid of my grief.

One of the most difficult parts of this has been my mother--she's been
working hard to be really helpful, but she lost two and took it about as
hard as I've ever seen anyone take anything, and it seems like this has
aged
her 5 years overnight. I grieve almost as much for her as for myself.

Jenrose