It's over

My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over.
I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days
off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time
feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now,
but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to
Ana's life.
I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the
same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense.


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Amy
Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02,
& Ana born screaming 30/06/04
http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/
My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/

Mum of Two writes:

My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is
over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana
on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out
her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems
important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to
cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as
though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If
that makes any sense.

It does, although I haven't been there. I'm sorry this is happening to you
all.

Sidheag
DS Colin Oct 27 2003

sorry for you amy

chris

"Mum of Two" wrote in message
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My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is
over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on
his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her
lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems
important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to
cause less disruption to Ana's life.
I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the
same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense.


--
Amy
Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02,
& Ana born screaming 30/06/04
http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/
My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/

((((Amy)))) I'm so sorry this all must be so very hard

Hugs


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Pip

My girls :
DD2 Abby - 8 weeks early now 10.5 months and has just learned to crawl
DD1 Jasmine - 5 weeks early now 3.75 yrs Favourite saying "I'm a big girl
cause I go to school Kindy"

"Inside me is a skinny women screaming to get out........but I can normally
keep the b*tch quiet with cookies"

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"Mum of Two" wrote in message
...
My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is
over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on
his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her
lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems
important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to
cause less disruption to Ana's life.
I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the
same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense.


--
Amy
Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02,
& Ana born screaming 30/06/04
http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/
My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/

Mum of Two wrote:
My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over.
I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days
off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time
feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now,
but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to
Ana's life.
I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the
same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense.

(Hugs)

I'm sorry. It sounds like you are taking the "high" road, which will be
easier on Ana. It means you are a good mama. Always remember that.


Annette



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Amy
Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02,
& Ana born screaming 30/06/04
http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/
My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/

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Mum of Two wrote:

*My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over.

Wow. That sucks! I'm sorry you're going through this, with such a young
one at home, too - argh. You seem like a strong person though....

--
Hillary Israeli, VMD
Lafayette Hill/PA/USA/Earth
"Outside of a dog, a book is a man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it is
too dark to read." --Groucho Marx

What a terrible blow Amy! It sounds like it may have been a bit of a
surprise for you too.

{hugs}

You are great member of this community it does not really matter
whether you have an OT post or not.

Thinking of you.

Larissa

Mum to
DD feb 99
DS mar 01
DD2 dec 03

"Mum of Two" wrote in message
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My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is
over.

Wow Amy. I'm so sorry to hear this. It sounds like it came as a surprise to
you. Don't be afraid to surround yourself with family and freinds for
support.

JennP.

"Mum of Two" wrote in message
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My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is
over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on
his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her
lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems
important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to
cause less disruption to Ana's life.
I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the
same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense.

Yeah, it makes sense.
I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup

Mum of Two wrote:
My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over.

Oh, wow, does that suck. I'm so sorry.

Might I be so forward as to recommend that you try counselling - if not
to save the relationship, at least to work things out enough that you
can be effective co-parents for Ana.

Hang in there,
Amy