Warning to Men/Fathers

Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board:

http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257

Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint
decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a
relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor.

Jeannie
a voice for the other side

On 24 May 2004 12:03:13 -0700, hpjeannie wrote:
Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board:

http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257

Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint
decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a
relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor.

More importantly, getting into a relationship in the first place
with a nutcase who would even consider doing something like that
does NOBODY any good.

A word to the wise - don't sleep with stupid people. It's
cheaper, in the long run. And helps improve the average IQ,
as well.

"user" wrote in message
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On 24 May 2004 12:03:13 -0700, hpjeannie wrote:
Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board:


http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257

Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint
decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a
relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor.

More importantly, getting into a relationship in the first place
with a nutcase who would even consider doing something like that
does NOBODY any good.

A word to the wise - don't sleep with stupid people. It's
cheaper, in the long run. And helps improve the average IQ,
as well.

How awful! "I poked several holes in each of my husband's condoms".

Gah.

Now, before I got pregnant with Emmaline, I went through a period of time
when I wound up crying during sex, because we were using contraceptives and
I felt it was all pointless, because I couldn't get pregnant! (My husband
felt we needed to be married a while before we had kids. But my 'biological
clock' was ticking so loudly I could hear nothing else. Now as it turns
out, I had PCOS so bad I wasn't *going* to get pregnant without medical
intervention, but we didn't know that then. Anyway. I know how it feels to
desperately want a baby, and to want it so badly that you don't think
straight.

On the other hand, it's pretty underhanded to sabotage condoms to "oops" a
kid on a partner who doesn't want one.

That lady better hope her husband, husband's friend, or husband's wife
doesn't read the board. And if he does, or if he finds out what she's done,
and especially if she gets pregnant, she'll be lucky if he doesn't leave
her. Which I'll bet is NOT what she wants. :/ I cannot imagine
disrespecting my husband this much. And some of those women are offering
suggestions on how to do it more effectively. Gah.

--angela

In ,
Chotii wrote:

*That lady better hope her husband, husband's friend, or husband's wife
*doesn't read the board. And if he does, or if he finds out what she's done,

Um. Isn't she her husband's wife?

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"Hillary Israeli" wrote in message
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In ,
Chotii wrote:

*That lady better hope her husband, husband's friend, or husband's wife
*doesn't read the board. And if he does, or if he finds out what she's
done,

Um. Isn't she her husband's wife?

I'm sure this is roughly the time I should put on my Scarecrow costume and
start singing "If I only had a brain!"

--angela

It's pretty sick...
What irks me is that most of them don't seem to have any recognition that
what they're doing might be wrong, no conscience there.
Our son was unplanned, but that was laziness on both sides, not deception.
Unfortunately he was stillborn, but the urge for another child was strong
for both of us, so this one was planned. Personally I'd like another if
motherhood agrees with me, as I've always seen myself with two, but DH would
just like the one. I'm hoping he'll come round once this one is a year or
two, but it would have to be a mutual decision, I could never do something
like that to him - it would destroy everything good we have in our
relationship.

"hpjeannie" wrote in message
om...
Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board:


http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257

Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint
decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a
relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor.

Jeannie
a voice for the other side

Oh man that is sooo wrong!! Don't these women know that they stand a good
chance of these men leaving them if their Husbands or SO found out that they
were decieved that way. And how can someone live with a secret like that for
the rest of their life? I wonder how old these women are or shall I say girls.

(CrystalRGarcia74) wrote in message ...
Oh man that is sooo wrong!! Don't these women know that they stand a good
chance of these men leaving them if their Husbands or SO found out that they
were decieved that way. And how can someone live with a secret like that for
the rest of their life? I wonder how old these women are or shall I say girls.


I think they wouldn't care as long as the money kept rolling in.
They obviously see their husbands/boyfriends as a sperm donor rather
than a partner.

Renee

(Renee) wrote in message . com...

I think they wouldn't care as long as the money kept rolling in.
They obviously see their husbands/boyfriends as a sperm donor rather
than a partner.

The phrase "walking wallet" is a good one too, and sadly apt.

Jeannie