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Not offering solids yet?!
I took Kami in for a check at the clinic, and told them (health visitor and
nursery nurse), that I was still breastfeeding, they said I was a good example, as many moms quit early or don't even bother to try breastfeeding. Then even before I had Kami on the scales they asked the dreaded question, "So, is he on solids yet?". I mentioned that we had tried Kam on solids which was a mistake, as we mistook Kami's growth spurt and demand as needing solids, and that we stopped. I also informed her that Kamron wasn't really a demanding feeder at the moment, and that I saw no need for solids. She said I needed to start solids as Kami won't be getting enough iron, so I told her I would give iron drops if that is the case. Her face was a picture when I told her about this newsgroup, and how many moms here don't offer solids till much later and how I planned to hold off as long as possible! I pointed out that solids made Kami have a bad eczema episode, and that he will be prone to food allergies, but then I got.. "Why not just offer a little babyrice, or mashed potato with water mixed in, or some pureed vegetables? he won't be allergic with those" I just left and decided that there was no point arguing with her, but I will not be starting solids until Kam is ready. Kami has lost 1 pound, but his activity levels are way up. He is sitting and rolling, and gets very exited and flaps his arms and legs about. This is the very first weight loss, so I am not worried yet. He has dropped from the 91st centile to the 75th, but is still a good size. -- Andrea mom of 5 - latest addition Kamron David 5 months 19lbs |
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Not offering solids yet?!
"Andrea" wrote in message ... I took Kami in for a check at the clinic, and told them (health visitor and nursery nurse), that I was still breastfeeding, they said I was a good example, as many moms quit early or don't even bother to try breastfeeding. Then even before I had Kami on the scales they asked the dreaded question, "So, is he on solids yet?". I mentioned that we had tried Kam on solids which was a mistake, as we mistook Kami's growth spurt and demand as needing solids, and that we stopped. I also informed her that Kamron wasn't really a demanding feeder at the moment, and that I saw no need for solids. She said I needed to start solids as Kami won't be getting enough iron, so I told her I would give iron drops if that is the case. Her face was a picture when I told her about this newsgroup, and how many moms here don't offer solids till much later and how I planned to hold off as long as possible! I pointed out that solids made Kami have a bad eczema episode, and that he will be prone to food allergies, but then I got.. "Why not just offer a little babyrice, or mashed potato with water mixed in, or some pureed vegetables? he won't be allergic with those" I just left and decided that there was no point arguing with her, but I will not be starting solids until Kam is ready. Kami has lost 1 pound, but his activity levels are way up. He is sitting and rolling, and gets very exited and flaps his arms and legs about. This is the very first weight loss, so I am not worried yet. He has dropped from the 91st centile to the 75th, but is still a good size. -- Andrea mom of 5 - latest addition Kamron David 5 months 19lbs Good lord, where do they think babies got their iron from 1000 years ago before we had iron-enriched cereals and food processors. I suppose it's possible that humans masticated meat for their untoothed babies, but I doubt it. -- Dagny |
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I amsurprised they were so vehement. The info from my doctor said to
start from 4 - 6 months, which would not make you a late feeder yet. I personally chose to feed my baby at 4 months, but if she had not been soooo ready with no food allergies in our family I would have held off. KC "Andrea" wrote in message ... I took Kami in for a check at the clinic, and told them (health visitor and nursery nurse), that I was still breastfeeding, they said I was a good example, as many moms quit early or don't even bother to try breastfeeding. Then even before I had Kami on the scales they asked the dreaded question, "So, is he on solids yet?". I mentioned that we had tried Kam on solids which was a mistake, as we mistook Kami's growth spurt and demand as needing solids, and that we stopped. I also informed her that Kamron wasn't really a demanding feeder at the moment, and that I saw no need for solids. She said I needed to start solids as Kami won't be getting enough iron, so I told her I would give iron drops if that is the case. Her face was a picture when I told her about this newsgroup, and how many moms here don't offer solids till much later and how I planned to hold off as long as possible! I pointed out that solids made Kami have a bad eczema episode, and that he will be prone to food allergies, but then I got.. "Why not just offer a little babyrice, or mashed potato with water mixed in, or some pureed vegetables? he won't be allergic with those" I just left and decided that there was no point arguing with her, but I will not be starting solids until Kam is ready. Kami has lost 1 pound, but his activity levels are way up. He is sitting and rolling, and gets very exited and flaps his arms and legs about. This is the very first weight loss, so I am not worried yet. He has dropped from the 91st centile to the 75th, but is still a good size. |
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"Andrea" wrote in message ...
I took Kami in for a check at the clinic, and told them (health visitor and nursery nurse), that I was still breastfeeding, they said I was a good example, as many moms quit early or don't even bother to try breastfeeding. Then even before I had Kami on the scales they asked the dreaded question, "So, is he on solids yet?". I mentioned that we had tried Kam on solids which was a mistake, as we mistook Kami's growth spurt and demand as needing solids, and that we stopped. I also informed her that Kamron wasn't really a demanding feeder at the moment, and that I saw no need for solids. She said I needed to start solids as Kami won't be getting enough iron, so I told her I would give iron drops if that is the case. Yeh, they're working from outdated info. Six months is now the recommended age to start. Her face was a picture when I told her about this newsgroup, and how many moms here don't offer solids till much later and how I planned to hold off as long as possible! I personally would not use a usenet newsgroup to back up my plans with medical professionals. LOL! Anyway, I thought the APA was saying 6 months? Are you in the UK? I bet the pediatric association there has also upped their recommended starting age. In case they give you trouble again. . . Kami has lost 1 pound, but his activity levels are way up. He is sitting and rolling, and gets very exited and flaps his arms and legs about. This is the very first weight loss, so I am not worried yet. He has dropped from the 91st centile to the 75th, but is still a good size. Hmmm, I didn't think it was normal for babies to lose weight after those first few days. If it were me, I might try to get some more nursings in. But maybe you've seen this weight loss in your other babies and it turned out to be nothing? |
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"Andrea" wrote in message ... I took Kami in for a check at the clinic, and told them (health visitor and nursery nurse), that I was still breastfeeding, they said I was a good example, as many moms quit early or don't even bother to try breastfeeding. Then even before I had Kami on the scales they asked the dreaded question, "So, is he on solids yet?". I mentioned that we had tried Kam on solids which was a mistake, as we mistook Kami's growth spurt and demand as needing solids, and that we stopped. I also informed her that Kamron wasn't really a demanding feeder at the moment, and that I saw no need for solids. She said I needed to start solids as Kami won't be getting enough iron, so I told her I would give iron drops if that is the case. Her face was a picture when I told her about this newsgroup, and how many moms here don't offer solids till much later and how I planned to hold off as long as possible! I can see not wanting to start too early. But what is the benefit of "holding off as long as possible?" Yeah, berastmilk is the perfect food to the forseeable future. But solids are often fun for the child. I mean, definitely no need to push, especially since it sounds like Kami is not interested. But why hold off? Thanks. I pointed out that solids made Kami have a bad eczema episode, and that he will be prone to food allergies, but then I got.. Oh. Ha. Should of read before I typed. Well anyway, I will post anyway in case their are more reasons. "Why not just offer a little babyrice, or mashed potato with water mixed in, or some pureed vegetables? he won't be allergic with those" I just left and decided that there was no point arguing with her, but I will not be starting solids until Kam is ready. Kami has lost 1 pound, but his activity levels are way up. He is sitting and rolling, and gets very exited and flaps his arms and legs about. This is the very first weight loss, so I am not worried yet. He has dropped from the 91st centile to the 75th, but is still a good size. -- Andrea mom of 5 - latest addition Kamron David 5 months 19lbs |
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"Stephanie and Tim" wrote in message ...
"Andrea" wrote in message .... I took Kami in for a check at the clinic, and told them (health visitor and nursery nurse), that I was still breastfeeding, they said I was a good example, as many moms quit early or don't even bother to try breastfeeding. Then even before I had Kami on the scales they asked the dreaded question, "So, is he on solids yet?". I mentioned that we had tried Kam on solids which was a mistake, as we mistook Kami's growth spurt and demand as needing solids, and that we stopped. I also informed her that Kamron wasn't really a demanding feeder at the moment, and that I saw no need for solids. She said I needed to start solids as Kami won't be getting enough iron, so I told her I would give iron drops if that is the case. Her face was a picture when I told her about this newsgroup, and how many moms here don't offer solids till much later and how I planned to hold off as long as possible! I can see not wanting to start too early. But what is the benefit of "holding off as long as possible?" Yeah, berastmilk is the perfect food to the forseeable future. But solids are often fun for the child. I mean, definitely no need to push, especially since it sounds like Kami is not interested. But why hold off? Thanks. I pointed out that solids made Kami have a bad eczema episode, and that he will be prone to food allergies, but then I got.. Oh. Ha. Should of read before I typed. Well anyway, I will post anyway in case their are more reasons. I was one of those young moms who put their baby on solids at 3 months with my first 2 kids. I was pushed into it by my health visitor and I belived it. Also with the next 2 they were on solids at 4 months, all were breastfed, but now I know that they didn't really need it. I just feel that Kami is so happy without solids, and I have found that as soon as solids are introduced no matter how varied the diet ends up, my babes suffer with very hard painful stools. I want to put that off! "Why not just offer a little babyrice, or mashed potato with water mixed in, or some pureed vegetables? he won't be allergic with those" I just left and decided that there was no point arguing with her, but I will not be starting solids until Kam is ready. Kami has lost 1 pound, but his activity levels are way up. He is sitting and rolling, and gets very exited and flaps his arms and legs about. This is the very first weight loss, so I am not worried yet. He has dropped from the 91st centile to the 75th, but is still a good size. -- Andrea mom of 5 - latest addition Kamron David almost 6 months! |
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"Andrea" wrote in message ... "Stephanie and Tim" wrote in message ... "Andrea" wrote in message ... I took Kami in for a check at the clinic, and told them (health visitor and nursery nurse), that I was still breastfeeding, they said I was a good example, as many moms quit early or don't even bother to try breastfeeding. Then even before I had Kami on the scales they asked the dreaded question, "So, is he on solids yet?". I mentioned that we had tried Kam on solids which was a mistake, as we mistook Kami's growth spurt and demand as needing solids, and that we stopped. I also informed her that Kamron wasn't really a demanding feeder at the moment, and that I saw no need for solids. She said I needed to start solids as Kami won't be getting enough iron, so I told her I would give iron drops if that is the case. Her face was a picture when I told her about this newsgroup, and how many moms here don't offer solids till much later and how I planned to hold off as long as possible! I can see not wanting to start too early. But what is the benefit of "holding off as long as possible?" Yeah, berastmilk is the perfect food to the forseeable future. But solids are often fun for the child. I mean, definitely no need to push, especially since it sounds like Kami is not interested. But why hold off? Thanks. I pointed out that solids made Kami have a bad eczema episode, and that he will be prone to food allergies, but then I got.. Oh. Ha. Should of read before I typed. Well anyway, I will post anyway in case their are more reasons. I was one of those young moms who put their baby on solids at 3 months with my first 2 kids. I was pushed into it by my health visitor and I belived it. Also with the next 2 they were on solids at 4 months, all were breastfed, but now I know that they didn't really need it. I just feel that Kami is so happy without solids, and I have found that as soon as solids are introduced no matter how varied the diet ends up, my babes suffer with very hard painful stools. I want to put that off! I beleive it. My problem was not the same. DS had a small window of acceptance of new stuff... and I ALWAYS missed it. Now his menu has a very small number of things on it, and anything new is automatically bad. My son, at 3, still has more gooey poo than hard. Isn't it funny how everyone has different situations and bodies? Just goes to show that there is no one-size-fits-all. "Why not just offer a little babyrice, or mashed potato with water mixed in, or some pureed vegetables? he won't be allergic with those" I just left and decided that there was no point arguing with her, but I will not be starting solids until Kam is ready. Kami has lost 1 pound, but his activity levels are way up. He is sitting and rolling, and gets very exited and flaps his arms and legs about. This is the very first weight loss, so I am not worried yet. He has dropped from the 91st centile to the 75th, but is still a good size. -- Andrea mom of 5 - latest addition Kamron David almost 6 months! |
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"Dagny" wrote in message link.net...
Good lord, where do they think babies got their iron from 1000 years ago before we had iron-enriched cereals and food processors. I suppose it's possible that humans masticated meat for their untoothed babies, but I doubt it. This simple answer is they got much less iron, were more likely to die, were much smaller, more sickly, and less healthy than now. If you really care, you should compare infant mortality in 1003 to infant mortality now. Ditto with average life span. Joshua |
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"Joshua Levy" wrote "Dagny" wrote Good lord, where do they think babies got their iron from 1000 years ago before we had iron-enriched cereals and food processors. I suppose it's possible that humans masticated meat for their untoothed babies, but I doubt it. This simple answer is they got much less iron, were more likely to die, were much smaller, more sickly, and less healthy than now. If you really care, you should compare infant mortality in 1003 to infant mortality now. Ditto with average life span. And keep in mind that those two things have improved for MANY more reasons than iron-enriched cereals, formula, anemia testing, and the like. Just the progress we've made in sanitation alone probably accounts for lots, if not most of that difference. Much more than iron supplementation, I'm certain. Teresa |
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