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"Laura" wrote in message om... unya (Purchgdss) wrote in message ... Yesterday, being the holiday that it was in the US, we did the obligatory calls to family and close friends. Why obligatory? Because it's up to us, as parent, to teach our children to honor their family and close friends. My dad was just diagnosed with cancer. When he suffered a series of minor strokes 4 months ago, I called him daily, to see how he was. I never thought to have my children call him. I thought I had done the right thing by calling. My stepmother finally told me, the other day, that she was unhappy that I hadn't had the children call their grandfather. I saw her point, and I now have the children call each of their grandparents every 2-3 days, just to say "Hi" and "I love you". My dad was delighted to hear from the kids today. My mother and stepfather were even more thrilled to have a phone call that wasn't a "Thank you" for a gift. This is the right thing to be doing. Teach your children to honor their grandparents. Some day, you'll be the grandparent. :-) |
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On Sat, 4 Dec 2004 14:36:17 -0600, "Moon Shyne"
wrote: "Laura" wrote in message . com... unya (Purchgdss) wrote in message ... Yesterday, being the holiday that it was in the US, we did the obligatory calls to family and close friends. Why obligatory? Because it's up to us, as parent, to teach our children to honor their family and close friends. My dad was just diagnosed with cancer. When he suffered a series of minor strokes 4 months ago, I called him daily, to see how he was. I never thought to have my children call him. I thought I had done the right thing by calling. My stepmother finally told me, the other day, that she was unhappy that I hadn't had the children call their grandfather. I saw her point, and I now have the children call each of their grandparents every 2-3 days, just to say "Hi" and "I love you". My dad was delighted to hear from the kids today. My mother and stepfather were even more thrilled to have a phone call that wasn't a "Thank you" for a gift. This is the right thing to be doing. Teach your children to honor their grandparents. Some day, you'll be the grandparent. :-) You snipped all my good stuff. "Why obligatory?" was about kids having to call people who have rejected them on specific holidays, rather than when they have something they want to say. You illustrated my point in your response, which I can't help reading as a lesson for me ("teach your children to honor their grandparents.") that I don't need taught. lm |
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"lm" wrote in message ... On Sat, 4 Dec 2004 14:36:17 -0600, "Moon Shyne" wrote: "Laura" wrote in message . com... unya (Purchgdss) wrote in message ... Yesterday, being the holiday that it was in the US, we did the obligatory calls to family and close friends. Why obligatory? Because it's up to us, as parent, to teach our children to honor their family and close friends. My dad was just diagnosed with cancer. When he suffered a series of minor strokes 4 months ago, I called him daily, to see how he was. I never thought to have my children call him. I thought I had done the right thing by calling. My stepmother finally told me, the other day, that she was unhappy that I hadn't had the children call their grandfather. I saw her point, and I now have the children call each of their grandparents every 2-3 days, just to say "Hi" and "I love you". My dad was delighted to hear from the kids today. My mother and stepfather were even more thrilled to have a phone call that wasn't a "Thank you" for a gift. This is the right thing to be doing. Teach your children to honor their grandparents. Some day, you'll be the grandparent. :-) You snipped all my good stuff. "Why obligatory?" was about kids having to call people who have rejected them on specific holidays, rather than when they have something they want to say. You illustrated my point in your response, which I can't help reading as a lesson for me ("teach your children to honor their grandparents.") that I don't need taught. It was a lesson that I needed to learn. It's a lesson that many need to learn. If you don't think you need to learn it, or have already learned it, by all means, ignore it. lm |
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