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when should you tell her you have kids w another woman?
At what point should you tell a woman you are dating that you have
children with another woman? I just kissed someone I have the biggest crush on- and I think she has on me- but we just met. We spent a day talking to each other.. and it.. just clicked. And == I realized last night she did'nt know. So I pondered.. and then.. I thought of telling her there's something she doesn't know about me- Then I thought I would see her in person- Then I thought I should just tell her immediately- so I wrote her some mail. Did I **** UP!????? |
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when should you tell her you have kids w another woman?
At what point should you tell a woman you are dating that you have
children with another woman? Right after name, occupation, and favorite color. Seriously, getting involved with someone carrying the baggage (not meant in a defamatory way there) of children, which means the whole mess of custody, visation, cs problems and an ex who will never be out of the picture - that is a whole different ballgame and not something to take lightly. It takes a big hearted, un-selfish person who does not get jealous easily to succeed in a relationship like that.The woman (or man) needs to know that their potential paramour comes with this baggage before investing any time or emotion in the relationship. Simply wouldn't be fair to them to develop feelings for you, only to find out down the road that they'll have to accept the whole unexpected mess if they want to continue the relationship. Tell 'em upfront; if they're the *one*, they won't run away screaming. |
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when should you tell her you have kids w another woman?
On Oct 1, 9:37?am, harcrelc wrote:
At what point should you tell a woman you are dating that you have children with another woman? I just kissed someone I have the biggest crush on- and I think she has on me- but we just met. We spent a day talking to each other.. and it.. just clicked. And == I realized last night she did'nt know. So I pondered.. and then.. I thought of telling her there's something she doesn't know about me- Then I thought I would see her in person- Then I thought I should just tell her immediately- so I wrote her some mail. Did I **** UP!????? Are you like 12 or have you reached your teens yet? |
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when should you tell her you have kids w another woman?
"harcrelc" wrote in At what point should you tell a woman you are dating that you have children with another woman? What makes you think she doesn't have any kids? You have already ****ed your life enough, don't get involved with another woman! Date, go to the movies, have fun, but you don't need to get into a relationship! You can't afford it anyway! |
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when should you tell her you have kids w another woman?
On Oct 1, 10:37 am, harcrelc wrote:
At what point should you tell a woman you are dating that you have children with another woman? I just kissed someone I have the biggest crush on- and I think she has on me- but we just met. We spent a day talking to each other.. and it.. just clicked. And == I realized last night she did'nt know. So I pondered.. and then.. I thought of telling her there's something she doesn't know about me- Then I thought I would see her in person- Then I thought I should just tell her immediately- so I wrote her some mail. Did I **** UP!????? You need to be honest, and straight up. Is you ex going to create a problem? If so, you need to let the new chick know what's up, and make sure she can handle anything that may come her way. You can only keep kids a secret for so long, and if you do end up in a relationship you don't want her to think you were hiding your children from her. |
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