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On Fri, 03 Dec 2004 16:03:13 GMT, "V" wrote:
"xkatx" wrote in message ... I think V was meaning that her son was misdiagnosed because HIS main symptom was what she mentioned ("The main symptom is 'hand flapping' and lack of social skills and inability to read other's emotions, like mad or sad."), which leads to the misdiagnosing of Aspberger's ("My son was diagnosed with Aspberger's about a year or so ago. I think, personally, it is a misdiagnosis.") I could be wrong, though... I think it is a misdiagnosis, because he is more socially adept than most children with the condition. The hand flapping, though, is not as much of a routine as funky noises. He was also diagnosed with OCD. That is a definate right on the money diagnosis. Has Tourette's been considered? It is not uncommonly comorbid with OCD, as they're both impulse control disorders. He is very, very ritualistic, and compulsive about things like smells, germs, and for a while, he had a obsession with pencils. He would pick up pencils everywhere, and anywhere. He had over 100 in his back pack and hid in his room before I figured it out. He just loved to "collect" them. All his little obsessions usually fade out and are replaced with a new one. The information overload is the most difficult to deal with. He reads something and can give it back to you a week later in it's full text. The tone of his voice never changes and he is very monotone when he speaks. It is at times, difficult to continue to actively listen. He will ask you a question, then answer it. Hey, you never know, he could be the next Jeopardy champion! We try to take the upsets and make them victories. Heh. That's a good attitude to teach resilience. :-) Good luck in your search for your son's diagnosis. It is difficult, I know. Good luck to you, V. Cele |
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On Sat, 04 Dec 2004 05:03:10 GMT, "V" wrote:
"Joelle" wrote in message ... Uh, no. Hand flapping has nothing to do with Aspergers. Yes it does. It is a repetitive motion in which is common among children with asperger's. It's not a "main symptom" It may be "a" symptom for "some" kids with Aspergers. That's one of the problems with diagnosing it. It manifests itself very differently and someone superficially familiar with it will dedide "oh he doesn't flap his hands, he doesn't have it" or "oh, she is close with her parents, she doesn't have it" I just think to say "hand flapping" is a "main symptom" is really misleading. Lots of aspie kids do not hand flap. Joelle The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page - St Augustine Joelle Not main, per say, but a lot of kids show that....from what the doc says. What the 'hand flapping' is about, is it's part of a bigger class of behaviours that are *very* common with ASD kids (autism spectrum disorder) called 'repetitive motion'. Plenty of ASD kids do hand flap, plenty don't. More kids with ASDs have some repetitive motion or other at some time in their lives, but certainly hand flapping is only one of many possibilities. A few, but by no means all, of the others a rocking, head banging, twirling, tapping, body pressing, etc. Some behaviours that are normal range, but repetitive, such as thumb twiddling, knee jiggling, foot tapping, etc., can be part of it if done to excess. Basically, what your doctor may be trying to tell you, is that a lot of kids with ASDs do have repetitive motions and it's one part of a complex diagnosis. But as we all know, people who don't appear to have any disabilities will have repetitive motions at times as well. For example, when my younger daughter was a screaming infant, I remember escaping long enough to go get something at the grocery store, and not being conscious that I was rocking until someone grinned at me and said, "got a baby at home?" LOL I have also found myself rocking gently at times of extreme stress - identifying my sister's body, in hospital hallways after extremely challenging days with T, etc. Do I have an ASD? Nope. But enough stress can bring out interesting behaviours in anyone, and one theory to explain the repetitive motion of kids with ASD is that they're self-soothing behaviours. Hope that's helpful. For those who don't know me - I'm not a doctor, I'm a special ed teacher, so add salt as you see fit. Cele |
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Both what Joelle and Cele are saying make complete sense!! See, way too many
symptoms overlap into other possibilities.... My son was at one point diagnosed with ADD.... Then it was ADHD... then it was schizoaffective disorder..... then it was Mood Disorder.... right now, the working diagnosis is ADHD with multiple features, Bipolar NOS and symptoms consistent with PTSD and Mood Disorder... HUH?!?! gee, aren't those all different names for virtually the same thing? The kid has mood swings, can become violent, was traumatized, is very sensitive, etc. So now, once we get onto medicaid, hopefully a doc that's covered will be willing to do a more diagnostic workup on this kiddo so we can effectively treat and manage what's going on with him. I mean, some of the meds he was on simply didn't make sense. In fact, Until we have a more concrete idea as to what's going on, medications will probably do more harm than good. My chiropractor has seen my son for some accupressure and a basic evaluation. we've discovered that my son's neck was traumatized during his birth and it's possible (now, keep in mind, this is a theory right now) that his skull sutures were beginning to seal before he was delivered. We wouldn't know unless we could get him in for the proper tests. Anyway.... Thanks! I'll speak with his special ed team about this a little more in depth. -- "Many have forgotten this truth, but you must not forget it. You remain responsible, forever, for what you have tamed." ~Antoine de Saint-Exupery "Cele" wrote in message ... On 03 Dec 2004 13:04:59 GMT, oaway (Joelle) wrote: No, He hasn't been diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome.... though I think I should at least ask his therapist about that and other things that have been brought up to me. I also doubt that the psychiatrists have even looked for it. You would be surprised how many doctors and therapists know very little about it so it can easily be missed. Many kids with aspergers get misdiagnosed and mistaken for other things. Doctors and therapists miss tons of things. I've always had a wry sense of both gratification and disgust that it was *me* who worked out that my daughter was profoundly far sighted, even though three opthalmologists told me I was nuts, and it was *me* who first suggested a diagnosis of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder even before she disclosed her trauma. Both are now established facts. To be fair, I guess they're only as good as the information we give them, and if we don't know what's important to tell..... then again. They need to ask the right questions, don't they? For the better part of about 3 years though, I wondered if perhaps my son did have a little autism going on.... Look into it. Yup. Always follow your instincts. The consequences of being wrong, are that you look and feel a bit silly. The consequences of being right and *not* addressing it, can be lifelong. did have a little autism going on.... I've been poo-poohed to death about my "paranoid" thoughts Yea, I know. God forbid you should suggest YOU who have been living with this kid might know a little more about him than the "experts: For sure. If experts react that way, with patronising or minimising responses, then it's time for a new expert. Even if you're wrong, the information should be provided respectfully with a good, clear, factual explanation of why your concerns don't seem to support your conclusions. Check out that link and see if anything resonates. You might also ask the school special ed people. They might be able to test for it, though I don't think they can diagnose. I believe things here are similar to down there in this regard, so I'll take a shot at that one. What we do here, as special educators, if a parents asks something of that nature, is to respond with our clinical impressions and best guess, qualify it by reminding them that we aren't trained to diagnose, and encourage them to see the right (medical) professional. However. Lots of us, me included, will also volunteer to call the doctor (assuming we get a signed permission slip to do so, of course) and present our observations and clinical impressions, which can then help the doc to A) take you more seriously and B) expand his/her awareness of the specific challenges the child is facing. Doctors tend to get more serious if they're *also* hearing from the school that there are consistent concerns. Good luck. Cele |
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I could be in denial, though.
Hey, aren't we all? :-) No kidding. :-) Who isn't? It's a very fine line between hope and denial. Joelle The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page - St Augustine Joelle |
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My son was at one point diagnosed with ADD.... Then it was ADHD... then it
was schizoaffective disorder..... then it was Mood Disorder.... right now, the working diagnosis is ADHD with multiple features, Bipolar NOS and symptoms consistent with PTSD and Mood Disorder... HUH?!? It's very frustrating, because in some way, they are all just guessing. And people (even some here) will blame it on your parenting because they have no idea what it is like dealing with a kid who sees and reacts to the world differently. Don't give up. Keep trying and believe in your kid and yourself. Joelle The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page - St Augustine Joelle |
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