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A True Shame
My daughters father is not taking care of our child at all, he doesn't
pay child support or anything. Two years ago was the last child support payment I recieved form him. He lied to the child support court saying that he didn't have a job ( I know that you are saying, why didn't I say that he was lying threw his teeth?, I would have but I couldn't make it to the court hearing because I live 340miles from where court was being held.), and because I was not present my case was closed. Now I'm trying to reopen my case, but I was told that I need to know where he works in order to get a child support order. The problem with that is that I moved from the city where he lives a few years ago to go back to college. I need him to pay the child support so that I can stop working so many hours and focus more on my books, I mean thats the reason I'm here. So if there is anyone out there with any suggestions, Please Email Me, cause this is A TRUE SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! |
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wrote in I need him to pay the child support so that I can stop working so many hours and focus more on my books, Child support only looks after the child's needs, not yours! Everybody else puts in a 40 hour work week, why should you be any different? |
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Unfortunately, there are people on both sides of the system that are harmed
by the system. I think it is kind of strange that your case was closed because he sisn't have a job. Usually arrearages build up if the NCP doesn't have a job--they don't just close the case. When you moved, did that take the child away from the father, so he no longer had any opportunity to interract with her? As for your going to school, you don't really have to go full time--you can take just a class or two at a time, and continue to work full time. That might be a better way to go, since your child is dependent on you to support her. wrote in message ups.com... My daughters father is not taking care of our child at all, he doesn't pay child support or anything. Two years ago was the last child support payment I recieved form him. He lied to the child support court saying that he didn't have a job ( I know that you are saying, why didn't I say that he was lying threw his teeth?, I would have but I couldn't make it to the court hearing because I live 340miles from where court was being held.), and because I was not present my case was closed. Now I'm trying to reopen my case, but I was told that I need to know where he works in order to get a child support order. The problem with that is that I moved from the city where he lives a few years ago to go back to college. I need him to pay the child support so that I can stop working so many hours and focus more on my books, I mean thats the reason I'm here. So if there is anyone out there with any suggestions, Please Email Me, cause this is A TRUE SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! |
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wrote in message ups.com... My daughters father is not taking care of our child at all, he doesn't pay child support or anything. Two years ago was the last child support payment I recieved form him. He lied to the child support court saying that he didn't have a job ( I know that you are saying, why didn't I say that he was lying threw his teeth?, I would have but I couldn't make it to the court hearing because I live 340miles from where court was being held.), and because I was not present my case was closed. Now I'm trying to reopen my case, but I was told that I need to know where he works in order to get a child support order. The problem with that is that I moved from the city where he lives a few years ago to go back to college. I need him to pay the child support so that I can stop working so many hours and focus more on my books, I mean thats the reason I'm here. So if there is anyone out there with any suggestions, Please Email Me, cause this is A TRUE SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! If you failed to show up for the hearing how do you know he lied about not having a job? Were you married to the child's father? If not have you legally established paternity prior to seeking CS? When you moved 340 miles away was that to a different state? |
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wrote in message ups.com... My daughters father is not taking care of our child at all, he doesn't pay child support or anything. Two years ago was the last child support payment I recieved form him. He lied to the child support court saying that he didn't have a job ( I know that you are saying, why didn't I say that he was lying threw his teeth?, I would have but I couldn't make it to the court hearing because I live 340miles from where court was being held.), and because I was not present my case was closed. Now I'm trying to reopen my case, but I was told that I need to know where he works in order to get a child support order. The problem with that is that I moved from the city where he lives a few years ago to go back to college. I need him to pay the child support so that I can stop working so many hours and focus more on my books, I mean thats the reason I'm here. So if there is anyone out there with any suggestions, Please Email Me, cause this is A TRUE SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! Indeed it is a TRUE SHAME! Very few shames top the shame of paying someone to NOT work; especially when it is done by FORCE! |
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On May 5, 5:33 am, wrote:
My daughters father is not taking care of our child at all, he doesn't pay child support or anything. Two years ago was the last child support payment I recieved form him. He lied to the child support court saying that he didn't have a job ( I know that you are saying, why didn't I say that he was lying threw his teeth?, I would have but I couldn't make it to the court hearing because I live 340miles from where court was being held.), and because I was not present my case was closed. Now I'm trying to reopen my case, but I was told that I need to know where he works in order to get a child support order. The problem with that is that I moved from the city where he lives a few years ago to go back to college. I need him to pay the child support so that I can stop working so many hours and focus more on my books, I mean thats the reason I'm here. So if there is anyone out there with any suggestions, Please Email Me, cause this is A TRUE SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! Well, here's my suggestion...since he does not have a job, why don't you support your child on your own, pay him a bit of money a month to support him, so that he can go to college and get a better job to later support his daughter? Oops! Sorry, nope...it's HIS duty to support you in college but it's not your duty to support your daughter? |
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"whatamess" wrote in message oups.com... On May 5, 5:33 am, wrote: My daughters father is not taking care of our child at all, he doesn't pay child support or anything. Two years ago was the last child support payment I recieved form him. He lied to the child support court saying that he didn't have a job ( I know that you are saying, why didn't I say that he was lying threw his teeth?, I would have but I couldn't make it to the court hearing because I live 340miles from where court was being held.), and because I was not present my case was closed. Now I'm trying to reopen my case, but I was told that I need to know where he works in order to get a child support order. The problem with that is that I moved from the city where he lives a few years ago to go back to college. I need him to pay the child support so that I can stop working so many hours and focus more on my books, I mean thats the reason I'm here. So if there is anyone out there with any suggestions, Please Email Me, cause this is A TRUE SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! Well, here's my suggestion...since he does not have a job, why don't you support your child on your own, pay him a bit of money a month to support him, so that he can go to college and get a better job to later support his daughter? Oops! Sorry, nope...it's HIS duty to support you in college but it's not your duty to support your daughter? Of course! This is the type of sick thinking the "child support" industry churns out daily. |
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