Killing Parents?

Greg Hanson wrote:

Steve invented a new game.

All future kidnappers can claim that the
evil parents programmed the kids against the
kidnappers using the stockholm syndrome.
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Nobody can decipher that, or how it would work.

You should learn to think before you sign your
name to the **** you write.
Steve

Steve invented a new game.

All future kidnappers can claim that the
evil parents programmed the kids against the
kidnappers using the stockholm syndrome.

Greg Hanson wrote:

Steve invented a new game.

All future kidnappers can claim that the
evil parents programmed the kids against the
kidnappers using the stockholm syndrome.
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This sub-phenomenon of cognitive dissonance is well-known in
psychology as a response to abuse. The Stockholm Syndrome
was the term applied to adults who experienced a sense of
wishing to absolve their abusive airline hijackers from
blame paradoxically after having been severely abused by
them. Sort of like: "If you can't beat your abuse, then
join them in approving their abuse so you don't feel like
a beaten little loser".

These victims in the Stockholm hijacking had been beaten and
systematically had their lives threatened so intimately and
with an attempt to break their will, that their paradoxical
psychological response was that the victims found it necessary
in their psyche to identify with their hijackers in order to
feel safe from imminent death, just as ignorant young children
must do before their parents, even showing dependence upon their
hijacker's love for them and approval of them.

This has elsewhere also been called the "beaten toady" response,
the response of the fearful more immature helpless sidekick to the
frightening acts of a more powerful or older leader-character doing
evil.

This is the sick pathology that makes even adults later regard
their parents as loving, even though everyone around them knew
they were cruel vicious *******s. Children have a need to be
loved and safe so great that they would rather believe they are
wrong and sinful and evil, than to believe their parents didn't
love them, even if they never loved them and only tortured them.

Both children and Stockholm Syndrome victims have a need to feel
safe beyond all reason and logic, no matter the lies and deluded
self-blaming they must tell themselves. This forms the basis for
these children as adults to abuse their children, in part to try
to prove that what their parents did to them was love, even if it
wasn't.

It is as if they know deep down that they have been abused, but
that the pain of admitting it about their only hope of sustenance
is far too frightening for them, so they pathologically deny it all
their life and visit the same abuses on THEIR children as a sick
attempt to prove they weren't abused, to try desperately to prove
that the **** done to them doesn't REALLY cause harm, when it does,
and when they secretly subconsciously KNOW it does!! This forms the
basis and origin of the motives behind all sado-masochistic drives
common to evil people and their victims who later become just like
them.
Steve