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Excuse me????????????
"Chris" wrote in message news:yIojf.10501$dv.501@fed1read02... "Beverly" wrote in message ... On Wed, 30 Nov 2005 10:23:32 GMT, "Moon Shyne" wrote: "Beverly" wrote in message .. . On Tue, 29 Nov 2005 20:15:43 -0800, "Chris" wrote: "Moon Shyne" wrote in message ... "Chris" wrote in message news:cmQif.10354$dv.9601@fed1read02... "Moon Shyne" wrote in message ... "Chris" wrote in message news:9tqif.10173$dv.2684@fed1read02... "Moon Shyne" wrote in message ... "Gini" wrote in message news:0f7if.118$gi3.46@trndny09... "Moon Shyne" wrote "Beverly" wrote ....................................... Were particular weekends specified in your visitation? By date? No, aside from his b'day and father's day - it was wide open, anytime he wanted to see them. ==== Didn't you take him to court to require him to stick with the visitation times or give you advanced notice of time changes? Only after he had repeatedly cancelled at the last minute any number of weekends - like a year's worth of last minute cancellations? And even then, the only specifications were every other weekend, and other times as requested - Do you believe that a child should spend an equal amount of time with both parents? If not, why not? There is no blanket answer to that one - in the case of one parent who simply refuses to take part in the children's lives, for example, then equal time simply isn't available. In the case of one parent who is abusive, for example, equal time isn't reasonable or safe. In that case, NO time is reasonable or safe, no? Which case? More than one was mentioned. In the case of the one immediately before my question; "In the case of one parent who is abusive, for example, equal time isn't reasonable or safe.". Wouldn't that depend on the type of abuse (child vs. spousal)? I dunno - when it comes to children, just what sort of, or how much, abuse is acceptable? Absolutely no type of abuse is ever acceptable, but I was agreeing with you and responding to Chris's comment "In that case, NO time is reasonable or safe, no?" It simply isn't as black and white as Chris's comment. Either time is reasonable/safe or it is NOT reasonable/safe. What's not black and white about that? Neither one works in ALL cases - that's what's so gray about it. Some people who have been abusive seek treatment when their behavior causes them to lose the most precious thing in their life, like a family. Alcoholics, for instance, can be abusive; however, once clean and sober through treatment, can be very safe to allow children to be with. A pedophile, on the other hand, cannot be treated in a way that makes them safe with children. "Safe" being a matter of opinion. Would you let a pedophile babysit your child? |
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