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6 month old growth spurt?
Haven't posted in a while---back at work and extremely busy. My DS--just
turned 6 months on the 23rd--has recently begun waking in the night. He has eaten probably 5 times overnight for the past week and a half(unlike his usual 1-2 feeds overnight). I am exhausted and am praying this is a growth spurt or a teething phase. DH tries to get DS back to sleep when he first wakes overnight--he has tried teethers, rocking, walking, etc.--DS just screams until he gets the breast. (I would prefer DH not give a bottle because I have a hard time keeping up with what DS drinks while I am at work). He used to sleep 6-9 hours at a stretch but is now down to about 4 hours tops. Anybody else have similar experience with DS/DD? Did your child resume sleeping a longer stretch on their own or did you have to break them of a couple of night feeds? FWIW, DS starts out the night in his crib .. . . after the first waking we co-sleep but he still keeps me awake searching for my breast. I am longing for another 6-9 hour stretch of sleep. Any suggestions or similar experiences? Thanks, Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
I know Robin you do not want to hear this but at around 5.5 mths old
Izabella started the same thing, and to this day is still waking every other hour at night, so for us it has not gotten better. She starts off in her crib and than when she 1st wakes I put her in bed with me. Its horrible she use to sleep 10-12 hours during the night and now its every 2 hours or so shes up. -- Laura, TTC #2 Mommy to Izabella **Feb 10th, 2003** And 2 felines *Ashes(3) & George (5)* http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/i/izabellawelburn/ "jake's mom" wrote in message . com... Haven't posted in a while---back at work and extremely busy. My DS--just turned 6 months on the 23rd--has recently begun waking in the night. He has eaten probably 5 times overnight for the past week and a half(unlike his usual 1-2 feeds overnight). I am exhausted and am praying this is a growth spurt or a teething phase. DH tries to get DS back to sleep when he first wakes overnight--he has tried teethers, rocking, walking, etc.--DS just screams until he gets the breast. (I would prefer DH not give a bottle because I have a hard time keeping up with what DS drinks while I am at work). He used to sleep 6-9 hours at a stretch but is now down to about 4 hours tops. Anybody else have similar experience with DS/DD? Did your child resume sleeping a longer stretch on their own or did you have to break them of a couple of night feeds? FWIW, DS starts out the night in his crib . . . after the first waking we co-sleep but he still keeps me awake searching for my breast. I am longing for another 6-9 hour stretch of sleep. Any suggestions or similar experiences? Thanks, Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
"jake's mom" wrote in message .com...
Haven't posted in a while---back at work and extremely busy. My DS--just turned 6 months on the 23rd--has recently begun waking in the night. He has eaten probably 5 times overnight for the past week and a half(unlike his usual 1-2 feeds overnight). snip Moo boy has been doing this for about 6 weeks now. I think he gest so uncomfortable with this teeth that he wakes up and wants some comfort, and the more he drinks the more he wees so that means 2 changes a night and before I didn't change him at all. snip I am longing for another 6-9 hour stretch of sleep. ha ha ha, you and most of the mothers in the world as far as I gather, 6-9 hours, ha ha! I haven't slept more than 4 hours in a row since I was 7 months pregnant. teapot and the moo, a week to go until he's 6 months old |
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6 month old growth spurt?
"Rob and Laura" wrote in message ble.rogers.com... I know Robin you do not want to hear this but at around 5.5 mths old Izabella started the same thing, and to this day is still waking every other hour at night, so for us it has not gotten better. She starts off in her crib and than when she 1st wakes I put her in bed with me. Its horrible she use to sleep 10-12 hours during the night and now its every 2 hours or so shes up. -- Did your ped. suggest the "cry it out" method to get Izabella to go back to sleep? I just can't do that and I really can't see how it will work b/c DH can't even console him. Does DD take naps during the day--DS doesn't even nap more than 15 minutes once or twice a day. You would think he would be as exhausted as I am! Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
Her pedi does not suggest anything ( I really dislike him) But everyone else
says let her cry it out, there is no way I can EVER do this. Izabella takes 2 naps a day if I am lucky and they will last about 15 min as well its horrible. There are days she only takes one nap and that is it. Its so hard. DH works graveyards, he comes home and goes to bed than I am up with her all day running on fumes cause I am so tired. DH fails to understand that not only do I have a job where I work from home but being Izabella's mommy is a 24 hour job as well. -- Laura, TTC #2 Mommy to Izabella **Feb 10th, 2003** And 2 felines *Ashes(3) & George (5)* http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/i/izabellawelburn/ "jake's mom" wrote in message . com... "Rob and Laura" wrote in message ble.rogers.com... I know Robin you do not want to hear this but at around 5.5 mths old Izabella started the same thing, and to this day is still waking every other hour at night, so for us it has not gotten better. She starts off in her crib and than when she 1st wakes I put her in bed with me. Its horrible she use to sleep 10-12 hours during the night and now its every 2 hours or so shes up. -- Did your ped. suggest the "cry it out" method to get Izabella to go back to sleep? I just can't do that and I really can't see how it will work b/c DH can't even console him. Does DD take naps during the day--DS doesn't even nap more than 15 minutes once or twice a day. You would think he would be as exhausted as I am! Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
"Rob and Laura" wrote in message .cable.rogers.com... Her pedi does not suggest anything ( I really dislike him) But everyone else says let her cry it out, there is no way I can EVER do this. Izabella takes 2 naps a day if I am lucky and they will last about 15 min as well its horrible. There are days she only takes one nap and that is it. Its so hard. DH works graveyards, he comes home and goes to bed than I am up with her all day running on fumes cause I am so tired. DH fails to understand that not only do I have a job where I work from home but being Izabella's mommy is a 24 hour job as well. -- I feel for you. Sometimes going to work is like a vacation! My sister watches DS part time as I have changed my work schedule to spend more time with DS. I work 4 am-noon because I did not want DS to be with someone else 9-10 hours a day. My sister used to say this age is the easiest. . . now that she watches the little kling-on who only cat naps once for her she has changed her tune! I can't let DS cry it out(even if it would work) so I'm running on fumes right now also. Could you possibly let DH watch Izabella while you do errands on a Saturday or Sunday so he might appreciate all you do? Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
(sorry I sent the post to your email by mistake!)
I wish I could have DH watch her, Rob works Sunday - Thursday so its horrible. The only real day I have is saturday and thats when I do grocery shopping! And sleeping..ha thats a luxury I wish I had back. I try to sleep and DH keeps coming in saying shes hungry. I sure wish he had boobs to feed her. I have had no one watch Izabella at all. I have no family here and everyone else we know works during the day. Like "regular" job hours. I never have the heart to let Izabella cry it out. I go into the room and I see tears on her face it just hurts me to see that I let her cry for so long. DH said tonight I cannot wait till you grow up and you can do things for yourself. I said to him there adults out there that cannot do things for themselves, and you want her to grow up!! Long time waiting yet!!! I miss sleep so much that if given the time to sleep I doubt I would know what to do.LOL Laura, TTC #2 Mommy to Izabella **Feb 10th, 2003** And 2 felines *Ashes(3) & George (5)* http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/i/izabellawelburn/ "jake's mom" wrote in message . com... Haven't posted in a while---back at work and extremely busy. My DS--just turned 6 months on the 23rd--has recently begun waking in the night. He has eaten probably 5 times overnight for the past week and a half(unlike his usual 1-2 feeds overnight). I am exhausted and am praying this is a growth spurt or a teething phase. DH tries to get DS back to sleep when he first wakes overnight--he has tried teethers, rocking, walking, etc.--DS just screams until he gets the breast. (I would prefer DH not give a bottle because I have a hard time keeping up with what DS drinks while I am at work). He used to sleep 6-9 hours at a stretch but is now down to about 4 hours tops. Anybody else have similar experience with DS/DD? Did your child resume sleeping a longer stretch on their own or did you have to break them of a couple of night feeds? FWIW, DS starts out the night in his crib . . . after the first waking we co-sleep but he still keeps me awake searching for my breast. I am longing for another 6-9 hour stretch of sleep. Any suggestions or similar experiences? Thanks, Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
"Rob and Laura" wrote in message able.rogers.com... (sorry I sent the post to your email by mistake!) I wish I could have DH watch her, Rob works Sunday - Thursday so its horrible. The only real day I have is saturday and thats when I do grocery shopping! And sleeping..ha thats a luxury I wish I had back. I try to sleep and DH keeps coming in saying shes hungry. I sure wish he had boobs to feed her. LOL! That's the truth! I remember when DH would do that to me--I could be in the shower or eating or using the restroom and DH would insist DS was hungry! Now if DH tries to give DS a bottle of expressed milk I get upset!( I am having a hard time keeping up with what DS drinks while he's with my sister so any little bit of expressed milk is definitely gold.) Poor fella, he can't win! I have had no one watch Izabella at all. I have no family here and everyone else we know works during the day. Like "regular" job hours. My other sister offered to keep DS overnight for us sometime--ha! ha! ha! She said she kept my nephew overnight as a baby, mind you he wasn't breastfed. I just laughed because I can only imagine the horrible night she would have--as well as myself... wondering how DS was and if he was o.k. I'm sorry you don't have family around to help out--that must be hard. I don't have anybody keep DS unless necessary(other than the 2 times DH and I have been out to eat) because of my shortage of expressed milk. I never have the heart to let Izabella cry it out. I go into the room and I see tears on her face it just hurts me to see that I let her cry for so long. The one time I let DS cry for a while I ended up crying with him! It's so pitiful to see his face with streaks of tears along with his snotty nose from crying so hard. DH said tonight I cannot wait till you grow up and you can do things for yourself. I said to him there adults out there that cannot do things for themselves, and you want her to grow up!! Long time waiting yet!!! That's the truth! I miss sleep so much that if given the time to sleep I doubt I would know what to do.LOL I know what you mean! Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
I wish DD would take a bottle of EBM!! Good l uck in that. Though she will
drink water and all of that out of a cup with a straw but give her EBM in there and NO WAY!! Its nuts. We had one person DH's cousin asked if we wanted a break shortly after DD was born. She said she would take her during the night time and we could go out and see a movie and have dinner!! I was in heaven, but DH had put his back out and of course we could not go. And she never asked us again. Boy I would have LOVED to taken a raincheck anyday for that. It hurts me so much to see DD cry. It makes me feel like its my fault, that it was something that I did or did not do. I tried letting her cry it out one time Robin and she cried for almost 8 hours it just broke my heart. DH just left for his work tonight, DD is teething as ALWAYS!! and it does seem like ALWAYS. Shes having tantrums and crying and oh my it just gets to you sometimes. I can tell that this will be a long night. -- Laura, TTC #2 Mommy to Izabella **Feb 10th, 2003** And 2 felines *Ashes(3) & George (5)* http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/i/izabellawelburn/ "jake's mom" wrote in message om... "Rob and Laura" wrote in message able.rogers.com... (sorry I sent the post to your email by mistake!) I wish I could have DH watch her, Rob works Sunday - Thursday so its horrible. The only real day I have is saturday and thats when I do grocery shopping! And sleeping..ha thats a luxury I wish I had back. I try to sleep and DH keeps coming in saying shes hungry. I sure wish he had boobs to feed her. LOL! That's the truth! I remember when DH would do that to me--I could be in the shower or eating or using the restroom and DH would insist DS was hungry! Now if DH tries to give DS a bottle of expressed milk I get upset!( I am having a hard time keeping up with what DS drinks while he's with my sister so any little bit of expressed milk is definitely gold.) Poor fella, he can't win! I have had no one watch Izabella at all. I have no family here and everyone else we know works during the day. Like "regular" job hours. My other sister offered to keep DS overnight for us sometime--ha! ha! ha! She said she kept my nephew overnight as a baby, mind you he wasn't breastfed. I just laughed because I can only imagine the horrible night she would have--as well as myself... wondering how DS was and if he was o.k. I'm sorry you don't have family around to help out--that must be hard. I don't have anybody keep DS unless necessary(other than the 2 times DH and I have been out to eat) because of my shortage of expressed milk. I never have the heart to let Izabella cry it out. I go into the room and I see tears on her face it just hurts me to see that I let her cry for so long. The one time I let DS cry for a while I ended up crying with him! It's so pitiful to see his face with streaks of tears along with his snotty nose from crying so hard. DH said tonight I cannot wait till you grow up and you can do things for yourself. I said to him there adults out there that cannot do things for themselves, and you want her to grow up!! Long time waiting yet!!! That's the truth! I miss sleep so much that if given the time to sleep I doubt I would know what to do.LOL I know what you mean! Robin |
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6 month old growth spurt?
Jessi has been doing this for several weeks and she is 6.5 months old.
At first there was increased feedings during the day too, so that was probably the growth spurt but the last few days she has not been too interested in breastfeeding during the day and still going strong at night. I think in our case she is too busy with development during the day to eat enough, so is doing her eating at night, KC "jake's mom" wrote in message .com... Haven't posted in a while---back at work and extremely busy. My DS--just turned 6 months on the 23rd--has recently begun waking in the night. He has eaten probably 5 times overnight for the past week and a half(unlike his usual 1-2 feeds overnight). I am exhausted and am praying this is a growth spurt or a teething phase. DH tries to get DS back to sleep when he first wakes overnight--he has tried teethers, rocking, walking, etc.--DS just screams until he gets the breast. (I would prefer DH not give a bottle because I have a hard time keeping up with what DS drinks while I am at work). He used to sleep 6-9 hours at a stretch but is now down to about 4 hours tops. Anybody else have similar experience with DS/DD? Did your child resume sleeping a longer stretch on their own or did you have to break them of a couple of night feeds? FWIW, DS starts out the night in his crib . . . after the first waking we co-sleep but he still keeps me awake searching for my breast. I am longing for another 6-9 hour stretch of sleep. Any suggestions or similar experiences? Thanks, Robin |
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