Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child

On Dec 17, 6:43 pm, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 12, 1:30 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
"teachrmama" wrote
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Apparently he could be working if he wanted to. If he never works,
the arrearages will never bother him, either. The system is
unlikely to "beat a dead horse" by jailing him for not paying.
They go after those that they think have something they can take.

If it went that far, I would not want him to go to jail. that would
serve no purpose.

But that is what the courts will do, and you know this! You shouldn't
lie! You know perfectly damned well what lies ahead for yur ex if he
should not pay your demanded amount.

If I request that he not go to jail over child support, they won't jail
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Untrue. Once the Government has started the enforcement process, THEY
become the plaintiff, and THEY petition the court for contempt. It is
out ofyour hands, although, I think you knew that already.

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On Dec 12, 1:30 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
"teachrmama" wrote
:

Apparently he could be working if he wanted to. If he never
works, the arrearages will never bother him, either. The system
is unlikely to "beat a dead horse" by jailing him for not
paying. They go after those that they think have something they
can take.

If it went that far, I would not want him to go to jail. that
would serve no purpose.

But that is what the courts will do, and you know this! You
shouldn't lie! You know perfectly damned well what lies ahead for
yur ex if he should not pay your demanded amount.

If I request that he not go to jail over child support, they won't
jail him.- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -

Untrue. Once the Government has started the enforcement process, THEY
become the plaintiff, and THEY petition the court for contempt. It is
out ofyour hands, although, I think you knew that already.


No, that's not true. My mother went to the hearing for my father, and he
didn't go to jail because she said she did not want him to. She also had
them take off the interest accruing, because Jewish law does not permit
Jews to charge interest to one another.

On Dec 18, 11:35 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 17, 6:43 pm, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 12, 1:30 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
"teachrmama" wrote
:

Apparently he could be working if he wanted to. If he never
works, the arrearages will never bother him, either. The system
is unlikely to "beat a dead horse" by jailing him for not
paying. They go after those that they think have something they
can take.

If it went that far, I would not want him to go to jail. that
would serve no purpose.

But that is what the courts will do, and you know this! You
shouldn't lie! You know perfectly damned well what lies ahead for
yur ex if he should not pay your demanded amount.

If I request that he not go to jail over child support, they won't
jail him.- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -

Untrue. Once the Government has started the enforcement process, THEY
become the plaintiff, and THEY petition the court for contempt. It is
out ofyour hands, although, I think you knew that already.

No, that's not true. My mother went to the hearing for my father, and he
didn't go to jail because she said she did not want him to. She also had
them take off the interest accruing, because Jewish law does not permit
Jews to charge interest to one another.- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -

You expect me to believe that CSE is going to let your ex off the jail-
hook because you request it?
You are deluded, and misinformed. Your opinion will not count for
anything becuase at that stage, the government (cs) is petitioning the
court, not you. You become the interested party, not the plaintiff, so
your ex will go to jail.

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On Dec 18, 11:35 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 17, 6:43 pm, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 12, 1:30 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
"teachrmama" wrote
:

Apparently he could be working if he wanted to. If he never
works, the arrearages will never bother him, either. The
system is unlikely to "beat a dead horse" by jailing him for
not paying. They go after those that they think have
something they can take.

If it went that far, I would not want him to go to jail. that
would serve no purpose.

But that is what the courts will do, and you know this! You
shouldn't lie! You know perfectly damned well what lies ahead
for yur ex if he should not pay your demanded amount.

If I request that he not go to jail over child support, they won't
jail him.- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -

Untrue. Once the Government has started the enforcement process,
THEY become the plaintiff, and THEY petition the court for
contempt. It is out ofyour hands, although, I think you knew that
already.

No, that's not true. My mother went to the hearing for my father, and
he didn't go to jail because she said she did not want him to. She
also had them take off the interest accruing, because Jewish law does
not permit Jews to charge interest to one another.- Hide quoted text
-

- Show quoted text -

You expect me to believe that CSE is going to let your ex off the
jail- hook because you request it?
You are deluded, and misinformed. Your opinion will not count for
anything becuase at that stage, the government (cs) is petitioning the
court, not you. You become the interested party, not the plaintiff, so
your ex will go to jail.

So my mother is lying? Ok....

On Dec 18, 12:41 pm, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 18, 11:35 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 17, 6:43 pm, Sarah Gray wrote:
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On Dec 12, 1:30 am, Sarah Gray wrote:
"teachrmama" wrote
:

Apparently he could be working if he wanted to. If he never
works, the arrearages will never bother him, either. The
system is unlikely to "beat a dead horse" by jailing him for
not paying. They go after those that they think have
something they can take.

If it went that far, I would not want him to go to jail. that
would serve no purpose.

But that is what the courts will do, and you know this! You
shouldn't lie! You know perfectly damned well what lies ahead
for yur ex if he should not pay your demanded amount.

If I request that he not go to jail over child support, they won't
jail him.- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -

Untrue. Once the Government has started the enforcement process,
THEY become the plaintiff, and THEY petition the court for
contempt. It is out ofyour hands, although, I think you knew that
already.

No, that's not true. My mother went to the hearing for my father, and
he didn't go to jail because she said she did not want him to. She
also had them take off the interest accruing, because Jewish law does
not permit Jews to charge interest to one another.- Hide quoted text
-

- Show quoted text -

You expect me to believe that CSE is going to let your ex off the
jail- hook because you request it?
You are deluded, and misinformed. Your opinion will not count for
anything becuase at that stage, the government (cs) is petitioning the
court, not you. You become the interested party, not the plaintiff, so
your ex will go to jail.

So my mother is lying? Ok....- Hide quoted text -

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Don't believe everything your mom tells you, fact of life, that's how
*wives tales* come about. But if you don't believe me check up on it.
There should be a website for your state where you can review the
guidelines and procedures.