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Membrane rupture question
-- -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- Looking for loans? http://acc2.dynip.com:1000/loan/index.htm -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- The pregnant pages are now online http://acc2.dynip.com:1000/preg/index.htm "Em" wrote in message news:2V4pc.91543$Ik.7022965@attbi_s53... "Vicki S" wrote in message (Elizabeth H Bonesteel) wrote: One woman this morning said that "they" will need to make sure the baby is born within 24 hours of your water breaking, because after 24 hours there is a high risk of infection. Someone else said that if your water doesn't break, "they" will do it for you at the hospital. ... is it really SOP if labor is progressing normally? And is there really a legitimate 24-hour "deadline" after your water breaks? When I gave birth in a hospital, I was quite close to delivering my son in an intact bag of waters -- something I really wanted purely for the romantic and "cool" aspect -- when my OB said she wanted to break the bag. So I asked my doula (who is usually a homebirth midwife and caught my second child) what she thought, and she said it was ok to let the doctor break the bag. So I let them. I still don't know why the Dr. wanted to. They didn't install a monitor, that's for certain! I should ask my midwife about this the next time I see her. :-) At any rate, the woman who said that "they" will break your bag for you if it doesn't break on it's own, is probably almost always right -- at least in US hospitals. rant--certainly not directed at you Vicki, just this issue in general I find it interesting how it seems like you can't win with how ROM occurs--if it breaks on its own, its "too soon" and hospital personnel get worked up about infection, but if it doesn't break early enough in labor, then it needs to be broken to "speed things up" or to "help things along" (even if labor hasn't really begun yet). Seems like quite a contradiction! I'm fairly cynical/pessimistic/negative about the hospital birth climate, so take this fwiw, but my observation is that the ROM issue is yet another way of taking control away from the laboring woman and making her feel like something is "wrong" with how her baby is doing things (either breaking the water too soon or not soon enough--apparently only a doctor knows when the precisely "right" time is. G*d forbid it should be the woman's own body and baby that decides!). /rant I think it would have been neat if your son was delivered in the caul--doesn't happen very often! My water didn't break in labor until I was fully dilated and pushing (at which time it broke quite forcefully!). By that time, I had basically forgotten that there was even water to break and it was fairly startling to me! -- Em mama to L-baby, almost 8 months old! |
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Membrane rupture question
Em wrote in message news:2V4pc.91543$Ik.7022965@attbi_s53... "Vicki S" wrote in message (Elizabeth H Bonesteel) wrote: One woman this morning said that "they" will need to make sure the I think it would have been neat if your son was delivered in the caul--doesn't happen very often! My water didn't break in labor until I was fully dilated and pushing (at which time it broke quite forcefully!). By that time, I had basically forgotten that there was even water to break and it was fairly startling to me! -- Mine broke forcably with #2. The midwives just told dh that he was at the "wrong end" when the waters broke all over them. He said "looks like I've got the right end". It was very funny! Debbie |
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Membrane rupture question
"Em" beadjoy@ .com wrote:
"Vicki S" wrote in message ... she said it was ok to let the doctor break the bag. So I let them. I still don't know why the Dr. wanted to. ... rant--certainly not directed at you Vicki, just this issue in general Oh, I don't feel the slightest bit implicated. I really enjoy most rants, actually. :-) I find it interesting how it seems like you can't win with how ROM occurs--if it breaks on its own, its "too soon" and hospital personnel get worked up about infection, but if it doesn't break early enough in labor, then it needs to be broken to "speed things up" or to "help things along" ... I expect my midwife would completely agree with you. She came over for a prenatal today and we talked about why the OB broke my sac. She had a few different answers, such as "it probably shaved 5 minutes off the end of the birth", and "OB's like to do things". She said she has a very hands-off attitude about such things, so I brought up how she pulled the sac off my daughter's face after her head was born. She said Ladybug was making exaggerated breathing motions with her mouth and wanted to facilitate the baby's opportunity/ability to actually breathe, since that's what she seemed eager to do. :-) It was a good conversation. I learned more about the births of both my children. I think it would have been neat if your son was delivered in the caul--doesn't happen very often! ME TOO! I have just ONE more chance at this, and my midwife knows I would love it to happen. Maybe this time it will! I've certainly made tough enough sacs the last two times! -- -- Vicki Married DH May 21, 1995. Ima shel Sullen, born 11/16/99; Chatty, born at home 5/19/02, and Expected, "due" September 4, 2004. |
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Membrane rupture question
It's strange to me that I had NO bleeding in my pregnancy at all and right
at almost 39 weeks I had an internal exam , which caused me to start bleeding red right there in the office, bled for a whole night, and then the next day my water broke with no contractions. Could that have been a factor? I wonder if I would have been induced due to ROM, if I had passed on the exam... |
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Membrane rupture question
Jill wrote: It's strange to me that I had NO bleeding in my pregnancy at all and right at almost 39 weeks I had an internal exam , which caused me to start bleeding red right there in the office, bled for a whole night, and then the next day my water broke with no contractions. Could that have been a factor? I wonder if I would have been induced due to ROM, if I had passed on the exam... I think so. I had a similar experience- Had an internal at 39 weeks, bloody show followed. ROM a couple of days later. I don't know if they were related, but I suspect that they might be. This time, no internals for me until labor starts. And hopefully that will happen when baby is well positioned and without rupture of membranes. Mary |
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Jill wrote:
It's strange to me that I had NO bleeding in my pregnancy at all and right at almost 39 weeks I had an internal exam , which caused me to start bleeding red right there in the office, bled for a whole night, and then the next day my water broke with no contractions. Could that have been a factor? I wonder if I would have been induced due to ROM, if I had passed on the exam... Could be. There's no way to tell for sure, but it's certainly a possibility. Best wishes, Ericka |
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