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"Moon Shyne" wrote in message ... "Tiffany" wrote in message news:irHAg.6308$ee1.3137@trnddc06... "Bev" wrote in message ups.com... Moon Shyne wrote: "Bev" wrote in message oups.com... Do you think a 2 1/2 year old should be able to say no to wearing earings? 2 1/2 yr. old girl.:-) Why not? At some point, she is going to be her very own person, with her very own preferences and tastes - better to practice now, while she has mom and/or dad to assist in the learning process. Something about choosing one's fights carefully........ earrings isn't the one to wage war over. Thanks Moon........I share your opinion of it. My grand daughters paternal grandmother had her ears pierced when she was like 4 months old, and J has worn them since then. Recently she asked her mom to remove them, so her mother did. Now the woman is constantly trying to convince J to put them back in and the child is adament "No" ..........."but your ears will close" ............"So, I dont want them" Now she has asked to have the earings, which makes me afraid she will force J to wear them. We put them in a ring box and gave them to her and sure enough she questioned J about putting them in again! How many times does this child have to say No ? I want to tell her "they are your ears and if you dont want earings in them you dont have to have them in" but I think I'll just let her have this argument with her other grandma and see who wins....I'm bettin on J though... she is one tough cookie to break ! LOL! They shouldn't have been pierced to begin with. Of course she shouldn't HAVE to wear them. Good for her to say no. I hope she throws a major temper tantrum about it and annoys the hell out of Grandma. (No you, the other grandma!) Why shouldn't they have been pierced to begin with? I got my daughter's ears pierced when she was 18 months - they healed up great because she was pretty unaware of them and didn't play with them. Because a baby can't tell you they want holes put into their body. |
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Mike wrote: Wow... 2 1/2 years old, with earrings? For being young, I sure feel behind the times. Well, I have 2 sons, so I can't really offer any advice. But my 6 year old son is definitely *not* getting an earring any time soon. Mike Exactly ...I dont even think a six year old boy would be interested in an earing unless his dad or older brother etc. has one. My granddaughter was forced to have pierced ears at like 4 months because her paternal grandmother and her mother wanted her to have them. She is 2 1/2 now and does not want them , when told by her other grandma "but the holes will close" she said "So...I dont want them!" I say jolly good for her ! They are her ears........ |
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"Bev" wrote in message oups.com... Moon Shyne wrote: "Tiffany" wrote in message news:irHAg.6308$ee1.3137@trnddc06... "Bev" wrote in message ups.com... Moon Shyne wrote: "Bev" wrote in message oups.com... Do you think a 2 1/2 year old should be able to say no to wearing earings? 2 1/2 yr. old girl.:-) Why not? At some point, she is going to be her very own person, with her very own preferences and tastes - better to practice now, while she has mom and/or dad to assist in the learning process. Something about choosing one's fights carefully........ earrings isn't the one to wage war over. Thanks Moon........I share your opinion of it. My grand daughters paternal grandmother had her ears pierced when she was like 4 months old, and J has worn them since then. Recently she asked her mom to remove them, so her mother did. Now the woman is constantly trying to convince J to put them back in and the child is adament "No" ..........."but your ears will close" ............"So, I dont want them" Now she has asked to have the earings, which makes me afraid she will force J to wear them. We put them in a ring box and gave them to her and sure enough she questioned J about putting them in again! How many times does this child have to say No ? I want to tell her "they are your ears and if you dont want earings in them you dont have to have them in" but I think I'll just let her have this argument with her other grandma and see who wins....I'm bettin on J though... she is one tough cookie to break ! LOL! They shouldn't have been pierced to begin with. Of course she shouldn't HAVE to wear them. Good for her to say no. I hope she throws a major temper tantrum about it and annoys the hell out of Grandma. (No you, the other grandma!) Why shouldn't they have been pierced to begin with? I got my daughter's ears pierced when she was 18 months - they healed up great because she was pretty unaware of them and didn't play with them. I myself have always felt it should be a persons own choice. I know there are many parents that get thier infant daughters ears pierced heck I have even seen parents of infant sons piercing thier ear , I personally chose to let my own decide for themselves. Apparently my granddaughter prefers not to have them and now that she is old enough to object she is. I voiced my opinion to her mother who chose to be a part of the piercing and I respected that then .I'm not so sure we as parents should be making these kinds of decisions for our children before they are old enough to choose for themselves. Well....... if the child decides they don't want earrings, it's a simple matter to simply take 'em out - the holes will get quite small, and in some cases close entirely. I just didn't see why it would be such a terrible thing to have done when the child was small enough for it to be over and done with. |
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"Tiffany" wrote in message news:5NSAg.592$rd1.404@trnddc01... "Moon Shyne" wrote in message ... "Tiffany" wrote in message news:irHAg.6308$ee1.3137@trnddc06... "Bev" wrote in message ups.com... Moon Shyne wrote: "Bev" wrote in message oups.com... Do you think a 2 1/2 year old should be able to say no to wearing earings? 2 1/2 yr. old girl.:-) Why not? At some point, she is going to be her very own person, with her very own preferences and tastes - better to practice now, while she has mom and/or dad to assist in the learning process. Something about choosing one's fights carefully........ earrings isn't the one to wage war over. Thanks Moon........I share your opinion of it. My grand daughters paternal grandmother had her ears pierced when she was like 4 months old, and J has worn them since then. Recently she asked her mom to remove them, so her mother did. Now the woman is constantly trying to convince J to put them back in and the child is adament "No" ..........."but your ears will close" ............"So, I dont want them" Now she has asked to have the earings, which makes me afraid she will force J to wear them. We put them in a ring box and gave them to her and sure enough she questioned J about putting them in again! How many times does this child have to say No ? I want to tell her "they are your ears and if you dont want earings in them you dont have to have them in" but I think I'll just let her have this argument with her other grandma and see who wins....I'm bettin on J though... she is one tough cookie to break ! LOL! They shouldn't have been pierced to begin with. Of course she shouldn't HAVE to wear them. Good for her to say no. I hope she throws a major temper tantrum about it and annoys the hell out of Grandma. (No you, the other grandma!) Why shouldn't they have been pierced to begin with? I got my daughter's ears pierced when she was 18 months - they healed up great because she was pretty unaware of them and didn't play with them. Because a baby can't tell you they want holes put into their body. And little boys don't tell us they want to be circumsized, either - but an awful lot of people have it done to their newborn sons. |
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"Tiffany" wrote in message news:WP_Ag.91$Qu4.46@trnddc04... "Moon Shyne" wrote in message ... "Tiffany" wrote in message news:5NSAg.592$rd1.404@trnddc01... "Moon Shyne" wrote in message ... "Tiffany" wrote in message news:irHAg.6308$ee1.3137@trnddc06... "Bev" wrote in message ups.com... Moon Shyne wrote: "Bev" wrote in message oups.com... Do you think a 2 1/2 year old should be able to say no to wearing earings? 2 1/2 yr. old girl.:-) Why not? At some point, she is going to be her very own person, with her very own preferences and tastes - better to practice now, while she has mom and/or dad to assist in the learning process. Something about choosing one's fights carefully........ earrings isn't the one to wage war over. Thanks Moon........I share your opinion of it. My grand daughters paternal grandmother had her ears pierced when she was like 4 months old, and J has worn them since then. Recently she asked her mom to remove them, so her mother did. Now the woman is constantly trying to convince J to put them back in and the child is adament "No" ..........."but your ears will close" ............"So, I dont want them" Now she has asked to have the earings, which makes me afraid she will force J to wear them. We put them in a ring box and gave them to her and sure enough she questioned J about putting them in again! How many times does this child have to say No ? I want to tell her "they are your ears and if you dont want earings in them you dont have to have them in" but I think I'll just let her have this argument with her other grandma and see who wins....I'm bettin on J though... she is one tough cookie to break ! LOL! They shouldn't have been pierced to begin with. Of course she shouldn't HAVE to wear them. Good for her to say no. I hope she throws a major temper tantrum about it and annoys the hell out of Grandma. (No you, the other grandma!) Why shouldn't they have been pierced to begin with? I got my daughter's ears pierced when she was 18 months - they healed up great because she was pretty unaware of them and didn't play with them. Because a baby can't tell you they want holes put into their body. And little boys don't tell us they want to be circumsized, either - but an awful lot of people have it done to their newborn sons. I don't have a little boy so I can't say from experience what I would do in that situation. But just because an awful lot of ppl have it done doesn't make it right. On the other hand, I still don't see anything terribly wrong with a parent making the decision to have their child's ears pierced at a young age. Or making the decision to have their child circumsized. Or getting their hair cut, or any of the other decisions that parents make all the time. |
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Moon Shyne wrote: And little boys don't tell us they want to be circumsized, either - but an awful lot of people have it done to their newborn sons. This is very true , I don't agree with that either. These is personal choices that I think parents make and I personally would'nt make those types of choices myself. You see little 1 and 2 year olds sporting mohawks and that irks my craw as well this is not the childs choice . Parents will of course eventually have to have the childs hair cut, the extremes are not what the child is wanting but again what the parent wants. Just my opinion I still live my life "to each thier own" Bev |
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'Kate wrote: On 4 Aug 2006 18:53:43 -0700, "Bev" the following was posted in blue dry erase marker: Mike wrote: Wow... 2 1/2 years old, with earrings? For being young, I sure feel behind the times. Well, I have 2 sons, so I can't really offer any advice. But my 6 year old son is definitely *not* getting an earring any time soon. Mike Exactly ...I dont even think a six year old boy would be interested in an earing unless his dad or older brother etc. has one. My granddaughter was forced to have pierced ears at like 4 months because her paternal grandmother and her mother wanted her to have them. She is 2 1/2 now and does not want them , when told by her other grandma "but the holes will close" she said "So...I dont want them!" I say jolly good for her ! They are her ears........ hehe... she didn't get a choice about her name either and she's stuck with that too. I know. I'm a troublemaker. yea you are ! We could just call all of them Jane and John doe and let them choose thier names later.......but lets remember my granddaughter named her turtle vagina!grin |
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'Kate wrote: On 4 Aug 2006 08:39:41 -0700, "Bev" the following was posted in blue dry erase marker: 'Kate wrote: On 3 Aug 2006 17:58:21 -0700, "Bev" the following was posted in blue dry erase marker: Do you think a 2 1/2 year old should be able to say no to wearing earings? 2 1/2 yr. old girl.:-) Eeek... I dunno. My kids didn't have pierced ears until they were old enough to decide that for themselves. It became a 13 year old birthday ritual. You know, welcome to teen-hood.... OUCH. Yea I waited for mine to ask........remember when S was sticking safety pins in her eyebrow and naval when she was like 14? At 19 she has unmentionables done now , all I know is not my cup a tea! YIKES!!!!!!!! I can totally understand where you're coming from. My oldest has a tattoo and several piercings. I don't even want to know where. My youngest has her lip done. She use to have a Monroe but let it close up after I said I'd sneak in one night and tie her mouth shut. :-) ROFLOL !!!!!! S had her nose pierced with the little stud type earing and it lasted a day she could not stand it. |
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"Bev" wrote in message oups.com... Moon Shyne wrote: And little boys don't tell us they want to be circumsized, either - but an awful lot of people have it done to their newborn sons. This is very true , I don't agree with that either. These is personal choices that I think parents make and I personally would'nt make those types of choices myself. You see little 1 and 2 year olds sporting mohawks and that irks my craw as well this is not the childs choice . Parents will of course eventually have to have the childs hair cut, the extremes are not what the child is wanting but again what the parent wants. Just my opinion I still live my life "to each thier own" Bev Yep, me too. |
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"Tiffany" wrote in message news:7AaBg.1824$Qu4.28@trnddc04... "Bev" wrote in message oups.com... Moon Shyne wrote: And little boys don't tell us they want to be circumsized, either - but an awful lot of people have it done to their newborn sons. This is very true , I don't agree with that either. These is personal choices that I think parents make and I personally would'nt make those types of choices myself. You see little 1 and 2 year olds sporting mohawks and that irks my craw as well this is not the childs choice . Parents will of course eventually have to have the childs hair cut, the extremes are not what the child is wanting but again what the parent wants. Just my opinion I still live my life "to each thier own" Bev Yep, me too. Even parents who might raise their children differently from how you might? Still "to each, their own"? |
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