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"Tiffany" wrote in message
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"Tiffany" wrote in message
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Things here have been ok. My daughter got pictures together (we only had a
few of the 2 of them) and we copied them and she made a poster of the pics
of her, her and him, his family, his dog, ect. It turned out pretty nice.
She is going to put it in the coffin.

She tells me she didn't want to go up there today because she knows when
she
gets there, everyone is going to 'freak out'. I said, yes, they will be
very
emotional and then you will become just as emotional and that is fine. But
she said, everyone thinks she should be so devastated but she isn't
because
she didn't know him that well. I said that is true and a legitament
feeling.
She said that I didn't seem upset, that I hadn't cried. I said, I am
different, I am not a big crier. But that is me, and she can cry all she
wants. She can scream and do anything and feel anything. It is hard for me
to tell her that I really don't feel much one way or the other. Anyone
losing their life is sad though. I feel for her and his family. When we
called up there to say we wouldn't be there until tomorrow, I think they
were upset. Oh well. I can't be concerned with everyone else, she comes
first.

So we are off early in the morning, the wake is at 3 then the funeral is
Monday morning.

Thanks again all for all the support.

Tiffany


My thoughts are with you and your daughter Tiff. Have a safe trip.

Christine