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"Lisa aka Surfer" wrote in message ... "turtledove" wrote in message om... "Didi" wrote in message . net... 'Kate wrote: I'm going to use this as a parting post. I don't think I can be of use to anyone just now and I realize, from Didi's post, that having only good news about ones life and children (and how grateful I am that things are going so well) and posting about it comes off like bragging. So, my letting everyone know how my life is going right now is *bragging*?!? Is it only acceptable to post here when times are tough? I'm sorry -- I thought that friends are there for people in good times as well as in bad ones. Your "parting post" sounds a little melodramatic, 'Kate. FWIW, let's set the record straight -- you were very jealous of Mo, and I'm pretty darn sure that any slam at her would have been welcome by yours truly. I remember many ICQ's with you where we hashed out your insecurities over Mo (especially in regards to Matt). She is young, beautiful, full of life, and she had virtually ever man in this ng in the palm of her hand. I'm quite sure that you and Lorian had a few giggles at Mo's expense. -- Didi who's far past the superficial bull$@*# Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous what the ****? Best just to sit back , Bri I think I'm going to set the timer on the coffee pot to save time in the morning. Surf I agree. |
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"'Kate" wrote in message ... I sent a letter of apology to Dennis. I didn't realize that his trip was confidential. I did pass on the info to Lorian that Mo had disappeared when he tried to contact her over the summer. I didn't mean to betray a confidence nor would I intentionally do so. I'd like to think of myself as trustworthy but evidently one needs a decent memory to do so. I had asked Lorian if she'd heard anything about Mo, from what I recall, because of her not posting and because I knew Lorian was in her area. I didn't think. So I'm the rat. God Kate, you couldn't have known. All I can do is apologise and at least set the record straight. I didn't do anything maliciously but harm did happen in some respect. But in my opinion, that doesn't make you the person at fault. Lorian is the blameworthy person here, not you hon. I'm going to use this as a parting post. I don't think I can be of use to anyone just now and I realize, from Didi's post, that having only good news about ones life and children (and how grateful I am that things are going so well) and posting about it comes off like bragging. Love to you all, 'Kate Ahhh I wish you wouldn't go. I know things have been rough for you as of late, but that's what we're hear for. If you need a breather, then ok... but don't go altogether. Do you have MSN? If you do, my MSN is cmedwards9 at hotmail dot com. But my email account is set to exclusive, so if ya want my email it's cme_ at telus dot net. Christine (I'm gonna miss you) |
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"Didi" wrote in message . net... 'Kate wrote: I'm going to use this as a parting post. I don't think I can be of use to anyone just now and I realize, from Didi's post, that having only good news about ones life and children (and how grateful I am that things are going so well) and posting about it comes off like bragging. So, my letting everyone know how my life is going right now is *bragging*?!? Is it only acceptable to post here when times are tough? I'm sorry -- I thought that friends are there for people in good times as well as in bad ones. Your "parting post" sounds a little melodramatic, 'Kate. FWIW, let's set the record straight -- you were very jealous of Mo, and I'm pretty darn sure that any slam at her would have been welcome by yours truly. I remember many ICQ's with you where we hashed out your insecurities over Mo (especially in regards to Matt). She is young, beautiful, full of life, and she had virtually ever man in this ng in the palm of her hand. I'm quite sure that you and Lorian had a few giggles at Mo's expense. -- Didi who's far past the superficial bull$@*# Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous Wow, why would you bring up something like that? Was it necessary? I don't think so. Christine |
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"turtledove" wrote in message om... "Didi" wrote in message . net... 'Kate wrote: I'm going to use this as a parting post. I don't think I can be of use to anyone just now and I realize, from Didi's post, that having only good news about ones life and children (and how grateful I am that things are going so well) and posting about it comes off like bragging. So, my letting everyone know how my life is going right now is *bragging*?!? Is it only acceptable to post here when times are tough? I'm sorry -- I thought that friends are there for people in good times as well as in bad ones. Your "parting post" sounds a little melodramatic, 'Kate. FWIW, let's set the record straight -- you were very jealous of Mo, and I'm pretty darn sure that any slam at her would have been welcome by yours truly. I remember many ICQ's with you where we hashed out your insecurities over Mo (especially in regards to Matt). She is young, beautiful, full of life, and she had virtually ever man in this ng in the palm of her hand. I'm quite sure that you and Lorian had a few giggles at Mo's expense. -- Didi who's far past the superficial bull$@*# Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous what the ****? Yeah, talk about kicking someone while they're down. Pretty spiteful IMO. Christine |
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Christine wrote:
Wow, why would you bring up something like that? Was it necessary? I don't think so. You know, it probably wasn't "necessary", but why should we pretend that any conversation between 'Kate and Lorian about Mo was anything other than what it most likely was -- a slam-fest at her absent expense? I was on both sides of the issue -- at one point I was friends with 'Kate as well as with Mo, and I lived through all of the insecurities and pettiness, and I can fairly report that it was all one-sided. Besides which, isn't this like the 3rd time that 'Kate has left the ng in the past few months? Always with a dramatic exit staged? -- Didi Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous |
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"Lisa aka Surfer" wrote in message ... "turtledove" wrote in message om... "Didi" wrote in message . net... 'Kate wrote: I'm going to use this as a parting post. I don't think I can be of use to anyone just now and I realize, from Didi's post, that having only good news about ones life and children (and how grateful I am that things are going so well) and posting about it comes off like bragging. So, my letting everyone know how my life is going right now is *bragging*?!? Is it only acceptable to post here when times are tough? I'm sorry -- I thought that friends are there for people in good times as well as in bad ones. Your "parting post" sounds a little melodramatic, 'Kate. FWIW, let's set the record straight -- you were very jealous of Mo, and I'm pretty darn sure that any slam at her would have been welcome by yours truly. I remember many ICQ's with you where we hashed out your insecurities over Mo (especially in regards to Matt). She is young, beautiful, full of life, and she had virtually ever man in this ng in the palm of her hand. I'm quite sure that you and Lorian had a few giggles at Mo's expense. -- Didi who's far past the superficial bull$@*# Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous what the ****? Best just to sit back , Bri I think I'm going to set the timer on the coffee pot to save time in the morning. Surf If Lorian has any class she won't be back. You know she's read all this already, I'm sure some of you even got an email already heh. |
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Bri wrote:
what the ****? O.k.....I'm simmering down. Am I the only one to have read 'Kate say that I was "bragging" about my life b/c I posted recently good things? Am I getting defensive over something that I misperceived? The part about 'Kate & Mo is my reacting to the thought of 'Kate and Lorian discussing Mo, knowing how they felt about my friend. Sorry for reacting. -- Didi Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous "turtledove" wrote in message om... "Didi" wrote in message . net... 'Kate wrote: I'm going to use this as a parting post. I don't think I can be of use to anyone just now and I realize, from Didi's post, that having only good news about ones life and children (and how grateful I am that things are going so well) and posting about it comes off like bragging. So, my letting everyone know how my life is going right now is *bragging*?!? Is it only acceptable to post here when times are tough? I'm sorry -- I thought that friends are there for people in good times as well as in bad ones. Your "parting post" sounds a little melodramatic, 'Kate. FWIW, let's set the record straight -- you were very jealous of Mo, and I'm pretty darn sure that any slam at her would have been welcome by yours truly. I remember many ICQ's with you where we hashed out your insecurities over Mo (especially in regards to Matt). She is young, beautiful, full of life, and she had virtually ever man in this ng in the palm of her hand. I'm quite sure that you and Lorian had a few giggles at Mo's expense. -- Didi who's far past the superficial bull$@*# Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous |
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Betsy wrote:
OK. I did not read 'Kate saying you were bragging, necessarily. Rather she thought if she continued to post here, SHE would be bragging. If that's what she meant, and I misinterpreted it, then I'll apologize for jumping on it. Then again, I am relatively new to this newsgroup, as has been pointed out to me before.I don't know people here as well as many of the others. Maybe it's best I stay out of it. Actually, Betsy, it sounds to me like you have a pretty good head on your shoulders, and I appreciate your honest assessment. I think that sometimes it is better to get opinions from people who are not in the "thick" of the emotional part of a situation. I started posting here in 1997 (I think), and I have somewhat of a "history" with many of the people here -- maybe I'm not the best judge of intent right now..... -- Didi also a nurse Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous |
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"Betsy" wrote in message . com... In . net, Didi typed: Bri wrote: what the ****? O.k.....I'm simmering down. Am I the only one to have read 'Kate say that I was "bragging" about my life b/c I posted recently good things? Am I getting defensive over something that I misperceived? The part about 'Kate & Mo is my reacting to the thought of 'Kate and Lorian discussing Mo, knowing how they felt about my friend. Sorry for reacting. OK. I did not read 'Kate saying you were bragging, necessarily. Rather she thought if she continued to post here, SHE would be bragging. Then again, I am relatively new to this newsgroup, as has been pointed out to me before.I don't know people here as well as many of the others. Maybe it's best I stay out of it. Betsy -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. That's exactly how I read it as well. That by continuously posting good things SHE would seem to be bragging. "kate has never been anything but adult in this group and I certainly didn't pick up on any of the vibes that you mentioned. I know a lot goes on offlist between people, but that is where it should stay....off list. I didn't feel you were bragging Didi. I'm very happy about your life. This is from someone who sees you on another list as well (the other list we are both on). Here's to us both having an easy move!!! *bri |
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Betsy wrote:
Gads how time flies. I don't intened to get embroiled in past fights, but it appears that no matter what I say on this subject, I will be, eventually, 'educated.' If it gets to be too much, I will go back to lurking. I have found a lot of support here and that's why I stick around. I figure I am mature enough to leave the bad stuff alone. Until it hits too close to home. Nice to meet you. I am prepared for the aftermath of this post, if there be any. LOL -- no aftermath from me! I readily admit that Peter was no "angel", and he and Lorian had some knock-down, drag-out wars. But, I knew Peter offline, and I knew his heart. He was a good man, and he was a great father. No one (besides Lorian) can argue that. I am glad that the ng has you, and I am glad that you have found support here. My intent is not to disrupt that -- just to clear the air about some good people who are getting a bad rap. -- Didi Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1 "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3." Anonymous |
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