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Rolly The Pervert wrote:
wrote in message ... Rolly The Pervert wrote: wrote in message news:[email protected]... "This is part of the result of living with mood swings, dissociation, the fog of anti-depressants and the "shock" of post-traumatic stress disorder. And it is the result of simply not knowing how to set limits and normal consequences when all you've ever lived in is a war zone." Don't you think living around and with someone with these problems would **** up about any kid? Kind of like how your kid must react to living around you, drug addict with abusive parents who blames it all on his litle girl's mother for her use of drugs when he himself uses drugs? How is your daughter coping with the violence in your home, Tom? In other words, judge not lest you be judged. Actually, it's my son, there's no violence. I don't do drugs, but this is your style Lorian, go off half cocked about **** you know nothing about. heh, delusions noted though I remember the violence in your home and so does google. And you talked about your drug use right here on this newsgroup so stop lying. And it is obvious that you have not completed your recovery or you wouldn't need to be so vicious to me or other women on this newsgroup, such as the woman you called a man hater. Get a grip Tom. If you have stopped using, that is great, but attacking me with your words is not working a good program and you know that. |
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![]() wrote in message news:[email protected]... Rolly The Pervert wrote: wrote in message ... Rolly The Pervert wrote: wrote in message news:[email protected]... "This is part of the result of living with mood swings, dissociation, the fog of anti-depressants and the "shock" of post-traumatic stress disorder. And it is the result of simply not knowing how to set limits and normal consequences when all you've ever lived in is a war zone." Don't you think living around and with someone with these problems would **** up about any kid? Kind of like how your kid must react to living around you, drug addict with abusive parents who blames it all on his litle girl's mother for her use of drugs when he himself uses drugs? How is your daughter coping with the violence in your home, Tom? In other words, judge not lest you be judged. Actually, it's my son, there's no violence. I don't do drugs, but this is your style Lorian, go off half cocked about **** you know nothing about. heh, delusions noted though I remember the violence in your home and so does google. And you talked about your drug use right here on this newsgroup so stop lying. And it is obvious that you have not completed your recovery or you wouldn't need to be so vicious to me or other women on this newsgroup, such as the woman you called a man hater. Get a grip Tom. If you have stopped using, that is great, but attacking me with your words is not working a good program and you know that. My son ( not daughter you gimp ) doesn't live in violence. ****, you're getting whats comming to you this time |
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Rolly The Pervert wrote:
She's now claiming I abuse my kids physicaly. where did I claim this? |
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![]() "Betsy" wrote in message m... she labbeled me an abuser years ago for telling her just that. hahaha |
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Damn it...............
"Lisa aka Surfer" wrote in message ... "Tiffany" wrote in message ... wrote in message . net... Tiffany wrote: Why is one need to be worse then the other? YOU are the one who just said that what I was doing was worse. Where did I say that? Why does there have to be fault? Again, YOU blamed ME, as usual. No I didn't blame you but I will now. If you allow someone to hurt you continously, its your fault. The end. It's not her fault, Tiff, it's her form of masturbation I think. I have to clean the screen again..............lmao Surf |
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Paul Fritz typed: "Betsy" wrote in message m... In news:[email protected], typed: Karen O'Mara wrote: "Tiffany" wrote in message ... Err... here we go again. To me, no name calling is ok but I can't control what Roy types or what Paul types nor would I want to. There is no one to be at fault here. You have name called also though, maybe not using b---- but you called Paul a women abuser which is pretty harsh. More so then being a bitch as most women confess to being a bitch. You are dealing with alot right now.... why make it worse by dealing with negative posts? Negative *anything* avoid like the plague now, Lorian. Goodness gracious, you want to pop a vein or something? Think, feel, live positive. Surround yourself with positivity. Some stuff you can't avoid, I know. Karen yeah, I know, I should have known that although these newsgroup regulars are my longtime friends, I forgot how they cosign the bull**** of men who choose to attack me when I am down. How could I forget? And yes you ignore trolls but you do NOT ignore threats to your real life nor do I allow people to call me names and go unchallenged not in real life and not online. That would be stupid to not defend myself and people who have not been abused don't understand that so I will not accept condemnation from them. They are just cowards who would rather blame the victim than stand up to the bully. Whenever you disagree with someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, if they get mad, you are a mile away and you have their shoes. Okay, I HAVE been abused. I have to say that I agree with what these folks are saying to the extent of ignoring it. As my mother once had a T-shirt that said, "Don't let the *******s get you down." YOU have the power to not read the posts. If you allow yourself to be hurt by petty name calling, you are allowing yourself to be a victim. You can not be victimized if you will not allow it. Being a victim is how looney validates her pathetic existence. Being a victim allows her to avoid the responsibilites of day to day life. Being a victim allows her to place blame everywhere except where it is deserved. I suppose I shall discover in time, if this is going to continue. One never knows when another may begin the change needed. I have done what I can, and will let time tell the rest. I have learned, the hard way, not to invest too much of myself 'saving' other people. I share my story(ies) and what worked for me. Where I am now, is miles from where I was 12 years ago. It took 12 years to get here, but I am here. I can only act as a guide to those willing to accept guidance. No more need be said. Or rather, I will say no more. Betsy -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. I have been called cold hearted, and a bitch more often than I can count; mostly by people who meet the profile of an abuser. Mainly because I stand up for myself. They don't like it if they can't hurt you. If it hurts your feelings, don't let them see it. It took me awhile, but I got there. You can too. It's likely more difficult for you because of the extent of abuse, and the mental illness, but it is not impossible. You may think I am attacking you, or assigning the blame to you, but actually this is an attempt at empowerment. I will probably be criticized for it. I don't really care. If you hear the meaning in my words, fine. If not, I can do nothing more. Good Luck. Betsy -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. |
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Rolly The Pervert typed: "Betsy" wrote in message m... she labbeled me an abuser years ago for telling her just that. hahaha You laughing at me or her? Betsy -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. |
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![]() "Betsy" wrote in message m... In , Rolly The Pervert typed: "Betsy" wrote in message m... she labbeled me an abuser years ago for telling her just that. hahaha You laughing at me or her? Betsy situation repetition humours me |
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