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Do you smoke Betty?
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Greegor wrote:
Do you smoke Betty? No, when I smoked it was Lucky Strikes and Camels. But I don't smoke any more...not since 76. Is "Betty" a new "Thai Stick," or "Panama Red," or "Maui Wowee?" |
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![]() "0:-" wrote in message news:[email protected] com... Greegor wrote: Do you smoke Betty? No, when I smoked it was Lucky Strikes and Camels. But I don't smoke any more...not since 76. Is "Betty" a new "Thai Stick," or "Panama Red," or "Maui Wowee?" Really. I've heard of 'Mary Jane', but 'Betty' is not on the list so far as I know. |
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Greegor wrote:
Do you smoke Betty? No, when I smoked it was Lucky Strikes and Camels. But I don't smoke any more...not since 76. Is "Betty" a new "Thai Stick," or "Panama Red," or "Maui Wowee?" Really. I've heard of 'Mary Jane', but 'Betty' is not on the list so far as I know. You would be the expert Betty. |
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Greegor wrote:
Greegor wrote: Do you smoke Betty? No, when I smoked it was Lucky Strikes and Camels. But I don't smoke any more...not since 76. Is "Betty" a new "Thai Stick," or "Panama Red," or "Maui Wowee?" Really. I've heard of 'Mary Jane', but 'Betty' is not on the list so far as I know. You would be the expert Betty. Everyone that has heard Marijuana called "Mary Jane" would be an expert? Or is it just you ducking that you smoked weed, eh? |
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Greegor wrote:
Kane/Donald smokes but lies about it. I have never smoked, despite parents who did. (I tried pot once in 1978 and I inhaled) Did you mention this to the CPS workers and others involved, Gagg? If not why not? How about your current "suit?" You going to mention it? 0:- |
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Hansen, you are a figment in your own imagination.
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Hansen, you are a figment in your own imagination.
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Thanks Betty!
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![]() Greegor wrote: Thanks Betty! No no, thank YOU, Gagg. And remember, it's easier to sue to force CPS to "reform." What are Child Sexual Abuse and Incest? Child sexual abuse is any sexual act performed with a child by an adult or older child, with or without force or the threat of force. Child sexual abuse is most commonly committed by someone known to the child, including family members. In this case, the act may be considered incest. Incest is overt and/or covert sexual contact or acts between people who are related genetically, by marriage, by living arrangements, or in whom a child perceives a trusting relationship, for example parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, step-parents, foster parents. Incest is one of the most common forms of child sexual abuse. It may start as seemingly innocent touching and progress to more serious acts. It can continue for years. Other individuals who may commit child sexual abuse include neighbors, family friends, baby sitters, religious leaders, youth group leaders, or others with a power advantage of any kind over the child. Child sexual abuse may also be committed by a stranger. The acts can include: touching or non-touching, verbal seduction or abuse, anal or vaginal intercourse, oral sex, sodomy, manual stimulation, direct threats, implied threats, or other forms of abuse. http://incestabuse.about.com/od/inth...a/Nixzmary.htm .... How can we fix the system that failed her? Legal Considerations We also need to inquire about the authority of the ACS investigators. How much power do they have? Is it enough? How far can they push an investigation against an uncooperative parent? If search warrants or anything similar are required, how easy are they to obtain? The Daily News reports that Nixzmary's stepfather had a previous assault charge. Do ACS investigators receive adequate protection when they investigate a complaint? What about the burden of proof ACS investigators have to meet? Is it reasonable, or is the bar set too high? Do the ACS workers have suggestions on changes that would make the system work more smoothly? Is there a weak point or bottleneck somewhere in the system that we could identify and address? .... .... Case Load We all agree that New York City is a pretty big place. So the first question is, how many people does ACS have on the job? Don't be satisfied with a total; ask for details. How many investigators, how many case workers, does ACS have on the streets? Do caseworkers do investigations and case management, or are they separate tasks? How much training do new caseworkers get? How much training does ACS wish they could get? Second question: how many active cases is ACS investigating? Again, insist on details. How many new reports of abuse does it receive in a month? How many ongoing cases do they have to keep up on? How many are quick checks and how many are involved and time-consuming? What is the average number of cases that each caseworker has to handle per week? Usually, when you do some simple math, you find that each caseworker has a ridiculous number of cases to fit into a regular workweek. But we're not done! Child abuse is one of most under-reported crimes in the world. Get some experts to make some informed estimates on how many unreported child abuse cases exist in New York City, and think about how to factor that into the caseworkers' workload. After we consider all of those numbers, then we can reflect on how likely it is that every child abuse report will get the kind of attention it deserves. ... http://incestabuse.about.com/od/inthenews/a/Texas.htm .... This is no surprise. People who work to help abused children and vulnerable adults have maintained for years that state funding cuts would result in this kind of suffering, but voters and legislators refused to listen. ... .... There is an old saying that "Quantity has a quality all its own," and in some ways, that applies to the challenge of protecting children and vulnerable adults. To do a proper job, you simply need the bodies -- the presence of trained workers -- on the street, looking, listening, and networking. ... .... Caseloads and Quality Think of our troops in Iraq and the job they are required to do there. Imagine, if you will, the troops trying to do their job with only 100 American soldiers in the country. Ridiculous, right? Think of our war on drugs, and imagine the DEA trying to do their jobs with only 50 agents in the agency. Outrageous, right? Now. Think of our campaign against child abuse and abuse of vulnerable adults. Imagine having so few caseworkers that each worker had to cover seventy-four cases every month. Let me tell you -- that's outrageous. It can't be done. But that is the current situation in Texas; a situation that is finally being improved. Unfortunately, the process is slow. The hiring won't be complete until 2007. When it is finished, each caseworker will have a caseload of about 45. That sounds like a big improvement, and it is. But don't ever forget that that is still far too high. In 1998, their caseload was 24 cases per month. National Child Welfare experts urge a caseload of 12 to 15 per month. The Texas legislators point out that no state meets those guidelines. Tragically, they are correct. The Joint Chiefs of Staff will tell the president how many troops we need in Iraq, and the president will send them, but no state takes that attitude about abused children and abused adults. The Nature of the Job Contrary to what you see on TV, child protection workers don't simply swoop in and take children from their families. Whenever possible, they leave the family intact, and work closely with them to make things better. Many cases are due to ignorance, lack of parenting skills, lack of resources, ignorance of conditions, and so on. Except in the bad cases that make headlines, the goal of the Child Protection workers is to teach the family to help itself. That takes time, patience, and a lot of work. The caseworkers have to overcome barriers of language, culture and attitude, and sometimes face physical danger. But in the end, it is possible to create an intact, self-sustaining family that is happy and free of suffering. The Bottom Line After so many years of discouragement, of watching legislators abandon children and the elderly, the Texas action comes as a breath of fresh air. They have finally acknowledged the need, and have finally faced up to the fact that the solution will cost money. It seems like a lot of money. And it is! But remember -- it's still not enough. In 1941, before the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, the United States had six aircraft carriers. By the end of the war, we had more than one hundred. We needed them, so we built them. After we had built forty carriers, did anyone suggest that we stop? No -- we kept at it until the job was done. Find politicians in your state and ask them what the average caseload is for Child Protection workers. Tell them about the experts recommending 12 to 15 per month. Then encourage them to keep at it until the job is done. Updated: January 25, 2006 ... Need I add, Gagg, that you and your cronies here in this newsgroup are a pack of thoroughgoing LIARS! 0:-] http://incestabuse.about.com/od/inth...a/Nixzmary.htm |
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