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Old June 25th 03, 06:05 AM
Chris
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Default Where are all the pro- "child support" (backdoor alimony) folks?

I haven't seen much lately in support of so-called "child support" here
lately. Apparently, all the advocates must have meandered over to
alt.feminazi or similar site.


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Old June 25th 03, 08:04 AM
Father Drew
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Default Where are all the pro- "child support" (backdoor alimony) folks?

I think it shows that we are the majority. The problem is, none of the laws
are put up to a vote. There are state CS committies, but they are flooded
with the nazies of which you speak, because they don't have to work during
the day while most fathers do. Then there is the fact that NCPs (not all)
are the laziest bunch of people I have ever met when it comes to fighting
for the cause. Bitching is easy, but I mainly see all talk, no show.
Imagine what we could do if we left the couch.

-Drew

"Chris" wrote in message
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I haven't seen much lately in support of so-called "child support" here
lately. Apparently, all the advocates must have meandered over to
alt.feminazi or similar site.




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Old June 25th 03, 03:23 PM
Dave
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Default Where are all the pro- "child support" (backdoor alimony) folks?


"Father Drew" wrote in message
news:sUbKa.169699$eJ2.88345@fed1read07...
I think it shows that we are the majority. The problem is, none of the

laws
are put up to a vote. There are state CS committies, but they are flooded
with the nazies of which you speak, because they don't have to work during
the day while most fathers do. Then there is the fact that NCPs (not all)
are the laziest bunch of people I have ever met when it comes to fighting
for the cause. Bitching is easy, but I mainly see all talk, no show.
Imagine what we could do if we left the couch.

-Drew


Have you talked to other men on this subject that are not familiar with the
system recently? Talk to them about this subject and see how far you get.
You will realize how ignorant most men are in believing the system is fair,
is for the children, you must be misinformed or a better lawyer will solve
all your problems. The propaganda that most are brainwashed to believe is a
major hurdle for fathers to get over which is why public protests are
crucial for change to succeed.

As far as those that are aware, what the hell are these men so afraid of
that they will not come out publicly against the feminazi and these polices?
At what point in history did men change that they seek approval from the
feminazi rather than stand up for their own rights?

Most NCPs I have met agree with the NCP posters here and are just as
outraged almost to frenzy when you discuss the subject of lifestyle child
support and visitation. But why do men fail to organize and protest? Why
is the mention of public protest looked upon by some men as being so foreign
or as a sign of weakness?

I think the liberal feminist media portrayal of male protesters has alot to
do with men believing if they protest it is laughable and they are behaving
like women. There is also the propaganda that we are all to believe this is
still the same land of freedom as it was 200 years ago. So any protest is
somehow subconsciuosly believed to be unpatrioitic or un-American when the
reality is the founding fathers would likely be outraged by these policies.

I find it ironic that the American NCP fathers are so passive on this
subject while the British NCP fathers are taking a public stand against this
injustice.


"Chris" wrote in message
news:e4aKa.79896$%42.8917@fed1read06...
I haven't seen much lately in support of so-called "child support" here
lately. Apparently, all the advocates must have meandered over to
alt.feminazi or similar site.






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Old June 25th 03, 05:38 PM
Indyguy1
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Default Where are all the pro- "child support" (backdoor alimony) folks?

Dave wrote:

snip to

But why do men fail to organize and protest?


I have a theory on this. It's because of the way so many have been raised.
Women have traditionally been the organizers in families. They see to it that
the vacations, Dr. appts, home repairs, etc. are booked, the family events are
attended, etc. Boys grow into men that have seen their mothes be the organizers
and then marry women who continue the pattern.

The best way to stop this is for parents to stop raising boys to expect this of
women and stop raising girls to accept this as their solo role as women. Do it
by example and in word.

I'm doing my share.

Mrs Indyguy
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Old June 26th 03, 12:47 AM
Mel Gamble
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Default Where are all the pro- "child support" (backdoor alimony) folks?

Yeah, sure....

Dave wrote:

snip to

But why do men fail to organize and protest?


I have a theory on this. It's because of the way so many have been raised.
Women have traditionally been the organizers in families. They see to it that
the vacations, Dr. appts, home repairs, etc. are booked, the family events
are
attended, etc. Boys grow into men that have seen their mothes be the
organizers
and then marry women who continue the pattern.

The best way to stop this is for parents to stop raising boys to expect this
of
women and stop raising girls to accept this as their solo role as women. Do
it
by example and in word.

I'm doing my share.


.... those aren't the family pants, it's just a stylish pants-suit - right?
(wink, wink)

Mel Gamble

Mrs Indyguy



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Old June 25th 03, 06:19 PM
gini52
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Default Where are all the pro- "child support" (backdoor alimony) folks?


"Dave" dave@freedoms-door wrote in message
...

"Father Drew" wrote in message
news:sUbKa.169699$eJ2.88345@fed1read07...
I think it shows that we are the majority. The problem is, none of the

laws
are put up to a vote. There are state CS committies, but they are

flooded
with the nazies of which you speak, because they don't have to work

during
the day while most fathers do. Then there is the fact that NCPs (not

all)
are the laziest bunch of people I have ever met when it comes to

fighting
for the cause. Bitching is easy, but I mainly see all talk, no show.
Imagine what we could do if we left the couch.

-Drew


Have you talked to other men on this subject that are not familiar with

the
system recently? Talk to them about this subject and see how far you get.

======
The answer may lie with the corollary of slaves. Many slaves did not support
the
movement toward freedom because they had been conditioned to believe their
role of
slaves was their legitimate place in the social fabric. Men have also been
conditioned to believe that their
role in the family is of provider. They view this as their legitimate place
in the social fabric. While there has been much ado
about women making the decision to be SAH moms, men very frequently desire
the woman to SAH and view it as the proper role for the wife/mother. It is
not uncommon for men view a working mother as their failure to provide
enough income
so that the mother can stay at home to rear the children.
===
===


 




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