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Loss....
I want to tell you about somebody really wonderful who died today.
She was my dearest friend's Mum. We all called her Muffin, and my kids called her Grandmuffin. I've known her since I was 13, and that's about 32 years. That's as long as I had my sister. She was always laughing. She could find humour in every corner, but she was never unkind. She was one of the most empathetic, compassionate people I've ever known. If ever I have half her love of life and of people and most of all, of her family and dearest friends, I will have learned more than most ever do from life. She was a fierce defender of her children and a woman of character and courage. When I was married, Muffin was there. When my children were born, Muffin was at all the showers, and was among the first to admire my babies. When I needed support, she was there for me, even though I wasn't her child. When I had an ectopic pregnancy, and came home from surgery and ten days' hospitalisation, my husband went to work. My mom had to work. But Muffin and Karen were there for me. They came a considerable distance at their own expense and stayed with me until I got strong enough to be on my own all day. When I was divorced, whenever things were down, when bad things happened, she was there with a card or an email or a phone call of encouragement. Sometimes, she would sense that we just needed encouragement for no particular reason, and she would send some along. We spent Christmas at her home one year, and were included as members of the family. It took all day to open all the presents, because so many people had wanted to show her their love with this or that little gift. She let me cry on her shoulder many times after my sister's death. She cried for my daughter, who was so badly brutalised. She supported all of our efforts and cheered our successes and felt our griefs. She was a joyous, loving, compassionate, giving human being. She gave life everything she had, lived with all her heart, and loved with her whole soul. Not just her own children, although, especially them. Not just her own family, although, especially them. Her heart was big enough for so many, many, many people. In that little 4'10" body she had a heart the size of the cosmos. I miss her deeply. My children miss her deeply. The world has lost a beautiful human being. And I needed somebody to tell - that she lived, and that she has died. So thanks for listening. Cele |
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I'm sorry for you loss. What a gift that you had someone like that in your
life. Joelle The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page - St Augustine Joelle |
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Just from your description I feel saddened that the world has lost such a
warm and loving person. However, her spirit is still around and will be for as long as those she blessed with her presence, love and laughter remember her and pass her legacy on. Louise |
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On Sat, 04 Sep 2004 02:53:38 GMT, Cele
wrote: I want to tell you about somebody really wonderful who died today. She was my dearest friend's Mum. We all called her Muffin, and my kids called her Grandmuffin. I've known her since I was 13, and that's about 32 years. That's as long as I had my sister. She was always laughing. She could find humour in every corner, but she was never unkind. She was one of the most empathetic, compassionate people I've ever known. If ever I have half her love of life and of people and most of all, of her family and dearest friends, I will have learned more than most ever do from life. She was a fierce defender of her children and a woman of character and courage. When I was married, Muffin was there. When my children were born, Muffin was at all the showers, and was among the first to admire my babies. When I needed support, she was there for me, even though I wasn't her child. When I had an ectopic pregnancy, and came home from surgery and ten days' hospitalisation, my husband went to work. My mom had to work. But Muffin and Karen were there for me. They came a considerable distance at their own expense and stayed with me until I got strong enough to be on my own all day. When I was divorced, whenever things were down, when bad things happened, she was there with a card or an email or a phone call of encouragement. Sometimes, she would sense that we just needed encouragement for no particular reason, and she would send some along. We spent Christmas at her home one year, and were included as members of the family. It took all day to open all the presents, because so many people had wanted to show her their love with this or that little gift. She let me cry on her shoulder many times after my sister's death. She cried for my daughter, who was so badly brutalised. She supported all of our efforts and cheered our successes and felt our griefs. She was a joyous, loving, compassionate, giving human being. She gave life everything she had, lived with all her heart, and loved with her whole soul. Not just her own children, although, especially them. Not just her own family, although, especially them. Her heart was big enough for so many, many, many people. In that little 4'10" body she had a heart the size of the cosmos. I miss her deeply. My children miss her deeply. The world has lost a beautiful human being. And I needed somebody to tell - that she lived, and that she has died. So thanks for listening. Cele What a lovely generous person. lm |
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"Cele" wrote in message ... I want to tell you about somebody really wonderful who died today. She was my dearest friend's Mum. We all called her Muffin, and my kids called her Grandmuffin. I've known her since I was 13, and that's about 32 years. That's as long as I had my sister. She was always laughing. She could find humour in every corner, but she was never unkind. She was one of the most empathetic, compassionate people I've ever known. If ever I have half her love of life and of people and most of all, of her family and dearest friends, I will have learned more than most ever do from life. She was a fierce defender of her children and a woman of character and courage. When I was married, Muffin was there. When my children were born, Muffin was at all the showers, and was among the first to admire my babies. When I needed support, she was there for me, even though I wasn't her child. When I had an ectopic pregnancy, and came home from surgery and ten days' hospitalisation, my husband went to work. My mom had to work. But Muffin and Karen were there for me. They came a considerable distance at their own expense and stayed with me until I got strong enough to be on my own all day. When I was divorced, whenever things were down, when bad things happened, she was there with a card or an email or a phone call of encouragement. Sometimes, she would sense that we just needed encouragement for no particular reason, and she would send some along. We spent Christmas at her home one year, and were included as members of the family. It took all day to open all the presents, because so many people had wanted to show her their love with this or that little gift. She let me cry on her shoulder many times after my sister's death. She cried for my daughter, who was so badly brutalised. She supported all of our efforts and cheered our successes and felt our griefs. She was a joyous, loving, compassionate, giving human being. She gave life everything she had, lived with all her heart, and loved with her whole soul. Not just her own children, although, especially them. Not just her own family, although, especially them. Her heart was big enough for so many, many, many people. In that little 4'10" body she had a heart the size of the cosmos. I miss her deeply. My children miss her deeply. The world has lost a beautiful human being. And I needed somebody to tell - that she lived, and that she has died. So thanks for listening. Cele Aww I'm sorry to hear that Cele. Her life certainly had meaning, at least to you and I would die happy knowing I had that affect on people. Christine |
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"Cele" wrote in message
... I want to tell you about somebody really wonderful who died today. snip I miss her deeply. My children miss her deeply. The world has lost a beautiful human being. It certainly sounds that way. :-( And I needed somebody to tell - that she lived, and that she has died. So thanks for listening. It's what we're here for. My thoughts go out to everyone who knew her and are grieving for her loss at this time. -- Paul Griffiths |
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Hugs to you and your family.
T |
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Thanks so much to all of you for your thoughts.
She was indeed an extraordinary person and I am deeply grateful to have had her in my life. She certainly had a life well lived. All of us here shall miss her very much. Thanks so much, you guys. Cele |
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Cele wrote: I want to tell you about somebody really wonderful who died today. She was my dearest friend's Mum. We all called her Muffin, and my kids called her Grandmuffin. I've known her since I was 13, and that's about 32 years. That's as long as I had my sister. She was always laughing. She could find humour in every corner, but she was never unkind. She was one of the most empathetic, compassionate people I've ever known. If ever I have half her love of life and of people and most of all, of her family and dearest friends, I will have learned more than most ever do from life. She was a fierce defender of her children and a woman of character and courage. When I was married, Muffin was there. When my children were born, Muffin was at all the showers, and was among the first to admire my babies. When I needed support, she was there for me, even though I wasn't her child. When I had an ectopic pregnancy, and came home from surgery and ten days' hospitalisation, my husband went to work. My mom had to work. But Muffin and Karen were there for me. They came a considerable distance at their own expense and stayed with me until I got strong enough to be on my own all day. When I was divorced, whenever things were down, when bad things happened, she was there with a card or an email or a phone call of encouragement. Sometimes, she would sense that we just needed encouragement for no particular reason, and she would send some along. We spent Christmas at her home one year, and were included as members of the family. It took all day to open all the presents, because so many people had wanted to show her their love with this or that little gift. She let me cry on her shoulder many times after my sister's death. She cried for my daughter, who was so badly brutalised. She supported all of our efforts and cheered our successes and felt our griefs. She was a joyous, loving, compassionate, giving human being. She gave life everything she had, lived with all her heart, and loved with her whole soul. Not just her own children, although, especially them. Not just her own family, although, especially them. Her heart was big enough for so many, many, many people. In that little 4'10" body she had a heart the size of the cosmos. I miss her deeply. My children miss her deeply. The world has lost a beautiful human being. And I needed somebody to tell - that she lived, and that she has died. So thanks for listening. Cele I wish there was something one could do to ease the sense of loss... My hearfelt condolences to you. Dor |
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I am terribly sorry for your loss.... When my grandma died, I had to keep
reminding myself that she will live forever in every generation.... and she lives in me, my siblings, my mom, my kids.... Grandma danced at my wedding but held me as I cried when I left the abuse and she told me I deserved better. She met my children (her great grandkids) and she lived a full life. Her quality of life was amazing and it sounds as if your friend had a great quality of life too. Thanks for at least sharing a little (as I'm still new and trying to learn a little more as I read on) and hang in there. Grief is a long journey and sometimes a tedious one but it's both painful and rewarding. the growth is amazing and the strength is a blessing. Hang in there.... -- "Many have forgotten this truth, but you must not forget it. You remain responsible, forever, for what you have tamed." ~Antoine de Saint-Exupery "Cele" wrote in message ... I want to tell you about somebody really wonderful who died today. She was my dearest friend's Mum. We all called her Muffin, and my kids called her Grandmuffin. I've known her since I was 13, and that's about 32 years. That's as long as I had my sister. She was always laughing. She could find humour in every corner, but she was never unkind. She was one of the most empathetic, compassionate people I've ever known. If ever I have half her love of life and of people and most of all, of her family and dearest friends, I will have learned more than most ever do from life. She was a fierce defender of her children and a woman of character and courage. When I was married, Muffin was there. When my children were born, Muffin was at all the showers, and was among the first to admire my babies. When I needed support, she was there for me, even though I wasn't her child. When I had an ectopic pregnancy, and came home from surgery and ten days' hospitalisation, my husband went to work. My mom had to work. But Muffin and Karen were there for me. They came a considerable distance at their own expense and stayed with me until I got strong enough to be on my own all day. When I was divorced, whenever things were down, when bad things happened, she was there with a card or an email or a phone call of encouragement. Sometimes, she would sense that we just needed encouragement for no particular reason, and she would send some along. We spent Christmas at her home one year, and were included as members of the family. It took all day to open all the presents, because so many people had wanted to show her their love with this or that little gift. She let me cry on her shoulder many times after my sister's death. She cried for my daughter, who was so badly brutalised. She supported all of our efforts and cheered our successes and felt our griefs. She was a joyous, loving, compassionate, giving human being. She gave life everything she had, lived with all her heart, and loved with her whole soul. Not just her own children, although, especially them. Not just her own family, although, especially them. Her heart was big enough for so many, many, many people. In that little 4'10" body she had a heart the size of the cosmos. I miss her deeply. My children miss her deeply. The world has lost a beautiful human being. And I needed somebody to tell - that she lived, and that she has died. So thanks for listening. Cele |
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